SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Its been a crappy few days for me as Ive lost what I thought was a good friend over something that was both our faults I guess. I made a mistake and a bad decision fulled by having low funds at the moment. And she then took it apon herself to be quite abusive to me to over it now I know I was wrong in the 1st place granted I never augured that! What I had a prob with was how she handled it instead of talking like adults she had a major case of extremely abusive potty mouth. To witch I went back at in defense she was the aggressor 1st were now not speaking and I'm sure the friendship is over. Its probably for the best looking back she seams like a bit of a user and is only good to people when their helping her I have no need for people like that anyways. Oh well I guess this is a bit of a vent thread any one else have something like this happen? you befriend some one only to find out later their not who you thought they were?
blair08 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I had something similar happen to me a few years ago. A long time friend took something I said the wrong way. She dropped me like a hot potato. I tried calling , emailing, chats etc, she wouldn't answer me or talk to me at all. I tried to explain my self etc. Then I took a step back and thought, why am I trying to explain myself? I know what I said wasn't wrong or intentional, she took it that way, and that is not on me. I tried to make amends but she wouldn't have it. I never ever got call, email or anything from her, she just stopped talking to me. It was later on through mutual family members and friends that I had found out WHY she stopped talking to me. Of course she thought what I said was intentional and it wasn't. But because she wouldn't hear me out, that said alot about our friendship. I also had found out that over the years, she had bad mouthed me behind my back to others while pretending all along, and had said some pretty hurtful things. According to her, everyone does her wrong, but she has never done wrong to no one else. Yeah ok then! Bottom line, even though it hurt, there was a reason that happened. She was never really a friend after all, and I'm so glad it kind of worked out the way it did. I didn't need anyone like that in my life.
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