cute_asian_girl Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 (edited) So 5 wks ago one of the guys at my gym asked me out for coffee. We hugged when we met, sat around for 3hrs talking, and hugged when we left. We see each other at the gym several days a week where we talk, etc. Then went out for a movie. Still only hugging. No hand holding, touching, etc. (offered me his popcorn which I was reaching in his lap for.) Still see each other at the gym, talk, etc. A lot of times he would walk me out to my car, hold the door open, etc. Well a few days after going to the movies he says he just wants to be friends. REALLY disappointed but OK. Still talk when we see each other, etc. Well another guy was hitting on me at the gym while Hot Gym Friend was working out on the cables. Not 2 minutes after the other guy leaves HGF comes up to talk with me and places his foot directly on the bench I'm sitting on. It was a very possessive/marking territory gesture. I wasn't the only one who thought so- the other guy took off. (he was on the bench next to me) He does this weird stuff and it really confuses me. Friends??? *He's gonna be away from the gym for a few weeks and I wonder if I should just stop texting him, etc and see what happens. Advice? Edited April 27, 2010 by cute_asian_girl
xRJ85x Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 So 5 wks ago one of the guys at my gym asked me out for coffee. We hugged when we met, sat around for 3hrs talking, and hugged when we left. We see each other at the gym several days a week where we talk, etc. Then went out for a movie. Still only hugging. No hand holding, touching, etc. (offered me his popcorn which I was reaching in his lap for.) Still see each other at the gym, talk, etc. A lot of times he would walk me out to my car, hold the door open, etc. Well a few days after going to the movies he says he just wants to be friends. REALLY disappointed but OK. Still talk when we see each other, etc. Well another guy was hitting on me at the gym while Hot Gym Friend was working out on the cables. Not 2 minutes after the other guy leaves HGF comes up to talk with me and places his foot directly on the bench I'm sitting on. It was a very possessive/marking territory gesture. I wasn't the only one who thought so- the other guy took off. (he was on the bench next to me) He does this weird stuff and it really confuses me. Friends??? *He's gonna be away from the gym for a few weeks and I wonder if I should just stop texting him, etc and see what happens. Advice? Doesn't sound like anything. Probably just a personality trait. There's a lot of weird people in the world.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I think you want it to be like that so your over analyzing things a tad id just be polite in the gym and if his behavior makes you uncomfortable then say something in the future.
tami-chan Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Take his word for it. Friend-zone him. As a matter of fact, talk to him about how attractive you thought the other guy is, as a friend, ask him for "relationship or dating" advice.
txsilkysmoothe Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Yes, take his word for it AND don't let him screw up your opportunities with other men! Don't interact with him in a b/f way.
Enema Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 I agree with tami-chan... ask him for dating advice. He's just a friend right? That's what friends do!
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