ilikegirls Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 weve been going out for 4 months and our relationship has been going great w/ the occasional bumping heads..but thats no biggie about a few weeks ago, i said we need to find another word for "like", cuz it doesn't fit how i feel for you. she said "i felt that for a while know too, i was just waiting for you to bring it up" then tried to say it like a week ago, but it didn't come out right, it kinda got mumbled and i dont think she heard me.. well today while we were cuddling i started to tell her how much she means to me etc etc.. then i said i love you she hugged me closer, she was really happy(i think) then she said she was about to cry & asked me how long ive felt this way... ive told her blah blah.. then she said that she heard me try to say it before but said that i mumbled it, which i did.. cuz i was scared and nervous of how she would react and if she felt it too.. then it was silent for a bit.. she is laying on my stomach, she picks us her head and said "____ you too" i didnt really understand what she said cuz i was in deep thought and i like sniffled or something and i couldn't hear. i dont know if she said it back? later i texted "love you" to her (which i never do, we always use "<3" or "like") she said "aww... etc etc" she still didnt say it over a text. so im not sure if she said it back or not..
starwolf242 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Hi, grammatically 'too' is always used in response to what has been said prior i.e. 'i like chocolate', 'me too!'. Therefore you said I love you, and her saying 'too' must mean she said 'love you too'. On an emotional level, she agreed that like isn't a strong enough word, she said she was going to cry when you finally said you loved her (which more than likely indicates happiness) and from what we can gather said love you too. Perhaps for her it is too soon for her to write it in a text. I remember the first time I ever text 'love you' to a guy. I was more nervous doing it over text than I was saying it in person! However I was the one initiating the text whereas he had said it first in person. But that wasn't the case here. My guess would be she doesn't like to say it as an automatic response. Not only has she not replied straight away by text but from what you said she also had a little delay when saying it in person. So either she only wants to say it when it will really mean something and you know she's saying it cos she feels it not just because you've said it to her, or she enjoys making you sweat a little? I'd say it was the former.
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