Ihavenoidea Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 So I am new to this site and just wanted some opinions on something because my friends give me mixed reviews. I went on a date with a women and it went amazingly well. We had known eachother for a while but never really met or hung out. I asked her out and I just planning on a few hours and we ended up spending the entire day together. Best date I have ever been on. We would talk occasionally and when i askerd her out we started texting a lot everday. I didnt kiss her on the first date and I asked her on a second date the following day and she instantly said yes. I get mixed signals but I am summing she likes me, hopefully more than a friend. Anyway since I didnt kiss her on the first date and everything is going well I thought about just opening up the second date with the kiss, nothing special just a nice kiss and act like it didnt happen and continue on the date. everyone says wait until you take her home, but thats really awkward so I thought spicing things up a bit by catchering her off guard, hopefully in a good way. Atleast ill know for sure that she likes me or not. What are your thoughts
Author Ihavenoidea Posted April 27, 2010 Author Posted April 27, 2010 lol i was afraid you would say that. I though it might be daring and bold. I have read that some women are really taken by it and even if it doesnt work they never forget it. Not sure.
Lakeside_runner Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Nah... kiss her after... If you do it right she'll think about that kiss after you leave and when she wakes up next morning. If you do it at the beginning and it doesn't go well this is gonna be hell of an awkward date.
tkgirl Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Nah... kiss her after... If you do it right she'll think about that kiss after you leave and when she wakes up next morning. If you do it at the beginning and it doesn't go well this is gonna be hell of an awkward date. ditto... if I guy I went out with a second time started the date off like that it probably would freak me out a bit.. then I'd be wondering what it meant, is he just going to try to get me in bed by the end of the night... what? I would have a hard time relaxing and enjoying the date. Just kiss her when the time feels right.. it doesn't have to be at the end of the date either!
ReadyforLove Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 ditto... if I guy I went out with a second time started the date off like that it probably would freak me out a bit I agree. DEFINITELY do it after the date!
Romance Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 you do it at the end of the date, it's how it goes. I mean unless you're walking through a park under the stars or something and get a good chance..then fine..but other wise dont kiss her at dinner or rush into the bathroom after her and sneak in a 'spicy' kiss
Author Ihavenoidea Posted April 27, 2010 Author Posted April 27, 2010 Seems the consensus is after which I guess I will do. What about a kiss on the cheek when we greet is that too much or does that open things up a bit
Lakeside_runner Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Yeah, you could do that. It depends how well you guys know each other. It's your second date - relax! Even a simple hug is enough.
Author Ihavenoidea Posted April 27, 2010 Author Posted April 27, 2010 ya im in no rush I suppose. My main concern was drifting into the friendzone which I want to avoid but I suppose if she already looks at me as a friend a kiss wont make a difference. We have already made it clear what our intentions are so I shouldn't be worried.
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