Ilovehim Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 To make a long story short, I was in love with this guy, he hurt me, lied to me, cheated and broke my heart into a million pieces. He was my first love. I used to always think "What goes around comes around" and that someday someone would hurt him. However, he left me, found someone else (or left me for them, I still don't know) and has been extremely happy ever since. Now he is about to get married. He has never had his heart broken, ironically always has had it good. When he left me, I went through so much pain, cried all the time, was so condused, while he was so happy with his life and new girlfriend. Although, I am completely over him and have met someone who I would like to be serious with, I can't help but feel like it isn't fair for stuff like this to happen. You're a scumbag, you cheated, lied to me and broke my heart and you never cried a single tear. Now you're about to get married? I'm not saying I want him to be miserable forever, I simply wanted him to pay for all the hurt he caused me, I wanted him to get his heart broken at least once, so he could know what that feels like. This isn't something I lose any sleep over, as I stated I am happy with my life, but it did cross my mind today. What do you guys think about this??
123BeachFan Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 The pain that you're still carrying for this guy is impacting YOU and not HIM. You are holding onto resentment. It's your baggage. And you won't be able to be 100% healthy in a new relationship until you toss out the old baggage. Practice the process of forgiveness in relation to your ex. You know you've moved on when you don't really -care- one way or the other if he's happy or miserable in his current relationship because he's out of your mind and irrelevant to your life.
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