lilagirl Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 SIGH... IMTK... so sad for you... just wanted to send you some hugs...
pureinheart Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Excellent observation!!!! I totally agree! Although I wonder if his W DOES take him back for any length of time, will it really amount to anything more than another part of the ping pong game? Every single time up to now, he does the "right thing" then realizes that I'mnot there anymore, cheering him on, making him feel loved, holding his hand through all of this. In one way or another he comes back with some kind of "what did I do?" or "this isn't working out..." He did it when they went to Florida a month ago. They were on the trip down and he texted "Things are already not going well." Then by the end of the trip he had made a statement that he was coming home to be with me. Then he got home and decided not to, but didn't change his number. Then we've gone from there. Just this Satruday afternoon (in bed!) he said he didn't want us to be totally separate as he works through the pain of this D. He said "let's text a few times a day and talk once" (which is usually at night anyway). sigh Ya, FA hit it...wow. In bold this sounded a bit calculated.
pureinheart Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 When he does call/come back be sure to be friendly and kind, get him to show up with the quilt and then force his ass out the door. QUOTE] ----------------- Yes! Entrapment or whatever you have to do : Get grandma's quilt back .. Ya, I hear ya, I'd be really freaking about that too...you are so cute CN
donnamaybe Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I appreciate the back up. But it's just Tami, don't let it bother you. I got your post too, BNB. I know what was behind it; tough love. As for certain posters, I agree with you. Some folks just need to be ignored. OP, I hope you've made up your mind once and for all and will finally lose this loser.
GaLwAyGiRL Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 IMTK, I have been following your story.. I hope you really are done! This guy really isn't worth anymore heartache.
her_halo_slipped Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 The ********* even charged the valet parking at the hotel to my room, which was fine at the time, but now I want my $25 back! He won't come back. In the past I have always written him emails, asking how he's doing etc. I can't even do that this time, I'm cut off. So if he comes back, it will be on his own dime. I guess if his W laughs in his face he might come back. Who knows. And you shouldn't care EXCEPT it is very clear from your posts that you are not done with him and I suspect that deep down you want him to come running back. Sorry...just calling it like I see it. What is this man going to have to do to you before you wake up. He is ruining your life. First he takes your marriage and now your job is on the line. IMTK.....come on...wake up and smell the coffee before it is too late.Please for your own sake.
bentnotbroken Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 I got your post too, BNB. I know what was behind it; tough love. As for certain posters, I agree with you. Some folks just need to be ignored. OP, I hope you've made up your mind once and for all and will finally lose this loser. I agree 100%.
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