grogster Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Way back in 2003 I began posting here about marital separation's impact on adolescents (under another user name). Then, off and on, over the years I'd post about my romantic affair with a married woman, my separation from my wife and life post-affair. Loveshack was my journal in which I recorded all the crimes of my heart. This past weekend, I returned to my wife--older, wiser, kinder, truer. I'm back home after 5 years of marital separation during which time I regained my life's equilibrium and the love for my wife. I'm centered again. I'm home again. Reconciliation, at last. For those of you who have fu*ked things up, never say never. Love,and family are not unbreakable; both are much stronger than you think. The ties that bind can indeed bind. With my return home, my Shack "journal" concludes. My time here ends, and my "old" life starts anew. Thanks for listening.
melodymatters Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Wow ! Well Grogs, we'll all miss you, but best of luck in your new/old life !!!
marlena Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Good luck, Grogster. I am very happy for you. And thanks for all the good advice you've ever given me.
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 This past weekend, I returned to my wife--older, wiser, kinder, truer. I'm back home after 5 years of marital separation during which time I regained my life's equilibrium and the love for my wife. I'm centered again. I'm home again. Reconciliation, at last. Woah! I have to say that is awesome! Good luck, friend - and hopefully you'll drop in again from time to time to say hello.
cp3_panda Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Good stuff man. Just a question, how did you end up realizing everything that you did 5 years later?? plus, did u keep in contact with ur wife the whole time and how did she act? D:<
Author grogster Posted April 27, 2010 Author Posted April 27, 2010 Good stuff man. Just a question, how did you end up realizing everything that you did 5 years later?? plus, did u keep in contact with ur wife the whole time and how did she act? D:< My wife and I had an amicable separation where we maintained semi-regular contact and communication. I didn't move far away, and I never, ever complained about child support obligations, which I even exceeded. With the passage of time, I found myself becoming much less interested in dating strangers, and more and more enjoying my wife's sensibility, humor, intelligence and decency. Things clicked into place and our reconciliation followed. We're both very happy now.
Kasan Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 So glad to hear the wonderful news, although, I am sorry to see you go. Your advice, sense of humor, and social commentaries will be missed! I can't help but feel the "Shack" will be a lessor place with your leaving. Who says you can't go back home?
Lizzie60 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Ooohhhhh Grogs... this is awesome... I am sincerely happy for you... I wish you the best!!! Hope you'll find true happiness. :bunny:
Lizzie60 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Grogs.. I hope you'll be back once in a while to say 'hi'... ask for a special permission .. let's say.. once a month..
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