pandagirl Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 I was talking to my LDR boyfriend tonight, joking around saying how sex every four to five weeks sucks when you have a bf/gf. He said: "This is the longest I've had to go without sex since I was 18." I thought he was kidding, but he wasn't! wtf? The longest I've gone is two years, which is probably on the other side of the spectrum, but really? I don't think going without sex for a month is such a big deal! So I was wondering what everyone else's longest "dry spell" was?
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Been sexually active since 17, I'm 22 now, longest dry spell has been about a week probably....
Romance Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 I'm in an LDR too, my longest has been 2.5 months, cause we didn't see each other. It does suck to have a boyfriend/girlfriend and not get sex. Like thats one of the perks of being in a relationship--lots of sex. I'd have more sex if i wasn't dating him! Frustrating haha.
CarrieT Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 During a five-year marriage, I went three years without sex. During a 12-year relationship, I went eight years without sex. My last 2 1/2-year relationship went 18 months without sex when I broke up with him. I'm now single and going on month number six with no signs of any prospects. I have a feeling that 2010 will go down for me as an entirely celibate year and I'm single and willing!
CLC2008 Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 I was talking to my LDR boyfriend tonight, joking around saying how sex every four to five weeks sucks when you have a bf/gf. He said: "This is the longest I've had to go without sex since I was 18." I thought he was kidding, but he wasn't! wtf? The longest I've gone is two years, which is probably on the other side of the spectrum, but really? I don't think going without sex for a month is such a big deal! So I was wondering what everyone else's longest "dry spell" was? 1.5 years...
SouthernSunshine Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 After childbirth, I waited long after the 6 week mark. It was about 4 months..
USMCHokie Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Coming on nine months now...longest break since my first time...which wasn't that long ago...
SilentVoice Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 A year and three months .... cant let that happen again
Samari Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Since my first time, which was a little over a year ago...three months. And that was when my girlfriend went back to Macau to see her family. Can't let that happen ever again.
Rorschach Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 In my one and only serious relationship the longest I went without sex was 2 months (we started long distance). Since the relationship ended in august I haven't had sex, so whats that 7 months?
somedude81 Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 3 years. I'd also be too embarrassed to tell anybody how I had sex on both of those occasions. The last time I did it was back in August, right before my birthday.
Knittress Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Since I don't do casual and I'm still feeling a bit burnt over my last relationship, that'd be somewhere between 1.5-2 years. I've stopped keeping track. It's comforting to see that there are other people out there who aren't humping like bunnies. Nothing like having your friends make you feel like a uptight weirdo for not finding some warm body to screw...
Peaceful Guy Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 It's comforting to see that there are other people out there who aren't humping like bunnies., yah, or at least, using each other for sex.. not that casual sex is always using somebody.. anyway.. 3-4 years, ive lost track.. priorities changed.. actually, had lots of sexual experience which is why i want something more substantial this time.. and im not willing to compromise myself for sex. life just keeps getting better and better too but i am definitely at a point now where im ready for a relationship again. got my own stuff strait finally and i think the wait was worth it.. ive been getting out and meeting people so probably this summer but who knows? thanks for being honest guys that helps.
Citizen Erased Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 5 months for me. Was thankful when that was over. :love: Fun thing about a LDR is you get a little taste of it and then go back to months without. But that's fine by me, it's not sex itself I miss so much as sex with him specifically. That connection is incredibly important to me.
VertexSquared Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 About 1.5 years -- my spell finally broken as of two days ago. XD
Rorschach Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 I listen to this when I workout, very motivating and it has a good beat. I thought of it when somebody said 'humping like bunnies'
ReadyforLove Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 I usually have very long stretches of not having sex. The longest was probably about 2 years.
make me believe Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 My longest dry spell is about 5 or 6 weeks after the breakup of my last relationship. I can't imagine going years or even months without sex!
sally4sara Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Three months is the longest for me. I'd sworn off dating for that time period.
Peaceful Guy Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 ..I can't imagine going years or even months without sex! you don't want to its no fun! but then, you might not have a choice.. ominous strings, clouds on the horizon!! ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!! i NEVER EVER EVER thought i would go this long without it, but when you have to choose between really unhealthy situations and being sexless.. well, i just hope i don't die before i have sex again.. then its okay!
dreamingoftigers Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 4 years, when I found religion. Hvae only had sex once since Boxing Day.
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