undisclosed Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 My ex sent a text then called a couple hours later. I didn't reply and missed the call, which I didn't return. He's the one who broke it off & when he did the door seemed pretty closed although he said he still loved me & it was difficult saying goodbye. My guess is he wanted to see if the grass was greener on the other side. So after two weeks of ignoring a txt from me (granted it wasn't a question), and not wishing me a happy birthday, he breaks the silence. I miss him and would forgive him, but I have also gotten to a place where even though I miss him I know its over & I was moving on to the best of my ability. So, since also @ this point, I would still try again. Should I call back or just wait to see if he calls again and answer then? I don't wanna get too exited over his first attempt because he could just be saying hey and still want nothing else. Is it likely that he'll try again or should I just call back?
SavannahSmiles Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 My ex sent a text then called a couple hours later. I didn't reply and missed the call, which I didn't return. He's the one who broke it off & when he did the door seemed pretty closed although he said he still loved me & it was difficult saying goodbye. My guess is he wanted to see if the grass was greener on the other side. So after two weeks of ignoring a txt from me (granted it wasn't a question), and not wishing me a happy birthday, he breaks the silence. I miss him and would forgive him, but I have also gotten to a place where even though I miss him I know its over & I was moving on to the best of my ability. So, since also @ this point, I would still try again. Should I call back or just wait to see if he calls again and answer then? I don't wanna get too exited over his first attempt because he could just be saying hey and still want nothing else. Is it likely that he'll try again or should I just call back? I think that deep down inside you know the answer. Does your gut tell you he's the right guy for you? If not, just continue not responding to him. The mind can play tricks on you. Be strong and go with your gut.
D-Lish Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 No, I wouldn't call him back. He left you, he lost the right to hear back from you when he did that. Take the attitude "who cares what he wants". If it's important, he'll call again. Since he dumped you, don't give the impression that you are available to him when he wants to talk to you. If you want to have an impact, let him feel what it's like to miss you. Don't under-estimate the impact silence can have on a guy that is on the fence. If he wants you back, he needs to work for it.
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