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My boyfriend of 6 months and I broke up this week. It came about because I asked him if he liked me as much as he used to (albeit in a txt) & he replied by saying he'd call and then didn't. I felt I had got my answer & he didn't rtn my msgs & was uncommunicative on the phone. He could not find the time to meet me before we had to work together again.

 

Through a few txts, initiated by me, I took responsibility for the break, saying I had been insecure & shouldn't have tested him out. We both left it saying we didn't want hard feelings.

 

I saw him at work very briefly yesterday & he didn't acknowledge me. I came home, had a wine or 2 with the flatties & txt him about him ignoring me. Some time later he replied saying he hadn't meant to & sorry. It all finished with me getting angry. I wrote a long msg saying that I took back blaming myself for asking him that initial question & that he had not behaved decently or kindly throughout the breakup & through some situations we in during our time together. I said I didn't want to see him & would stay out of his way & he wasn't sorry at all.

 

I've woken up really wishing i'd just left it. Is there anything I can do to damage control this in a dignified manner or should I just lie low & do nothing? I meant what I said in the txt buy have probably come across as a needy jilted girl.

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