ussy Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Hi guys, the problem is that my ex's sister added me on facebook but every time i see her name online it kills me, it really really hurts me inside! I dont know how she all of a sudden appeared on my contacts because i cant remember adding her, she said she added me ages ago but shes only started to appear online on mine for a couple of days now. Back to the point, i know i should delete her but i just cant!! I feel that something might come from keeping her, why am i being foolish? I should just delete her right?
CarrieT Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Back to the point, i know i should delete her but i just cant!! I feel that something might come from keeping her, why am i being foolish? I should just delete her right? The sooner you delete her the less it will hurt. You are not being foolish as much as you are still clinging to hope. Delete.
skydiveaddict Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 FB is poison for just this reason. I would delete my account
USMCHokie Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Delete and block. You owe her nothing on FB. And to those who think this is childish or petty, I think you need to worry about your real life more than your Facebook life...unless you have no real life...then I'm sorry...I guess Facebook will have to do...
GrayClouds Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 (edited) Facebukkake;(fyes/bʊˈkæke/) -noun a modern cultural fetish of individual subordination with implied or overt emotional humiliation for a false sense of social popularity and/or intimacy. Just say no. . Edited April 26, 2010 by GrayClouds
confused and broken Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Facebukkake;(fyes/bʊˈkæke/) -noun a modern cultural fetish of individual subordination with implied or overt emotional humiliation for a false sense of social popularity and/or intimacy. Just say no. . Amen can't say it better
Heatemyheart89 Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 please delete and block facebook is evil for these things. Do it and never look back x
Ilovecake Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 No good can come out of you keeping these ties to your ex. Delete her right away and if you have to block her.
Author ussy Posted April 26, 2010 Author Posted April 26, 2010 I know I have to block her, it's just that I don't want to seem rude to her sister. Is there any way where I can block her and her not being able to find out?
Ilovecake Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 They just can't see your profile or anything you do on facebook. To someone you blocked it just looks like your account has been closed. If you are not super good friends with her sister I don't see why you worry about how you come off to her instead of worrying about how you feel. If she thinks you're rude that’s her problem, you need to worry about your best interest. You’re #1.
DenverBachelor Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 When I started using Facebook again, I messaged my ex's brother and his best friend and simply explained that there was really no reason to keep them as friends and that I was de-friending them but not to take it personally. I never received a reply nor did I expect one but the bottom line is that you have to look after your own best interests and not worry how you appear by de-friending and/or blocking her. If your ex is out of your life, there is no reason whatsoever for the rest of her family to still be in your life. It sucks, but that's the way of it.
Author ussy Posted April 26, 2010 Author Posted April 26, 2010 Yeah I know that but I don't want her to think bad of me. We share a lot of mutual friends on fb so she would know that I've deleted her, I don't know what to do
Ilovecake Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 OK my other advice is don't delete her. Hope that helps.
northstar1 Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Yeah I know that but I don't want her to think bad of me. We share a lot of mutual friends on fb so she would know that I've deleted her, I don't know what to do Who cares what your ex's family think of you now? You are broken up, that bind is severed. All bets are off. When my ex and I broke up, her sister deleted me off FB. And I didn't care. There are casualities to breakups, and sadly, FB is now included in that. You need to look out for you, not care what impression you give your ex's sister on a networking site. They'll get over it.
sean1970 Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Yeah I know that but I don't want her to think bad of me. We share a lot of mutual friends on fb so she would know that I've deleted her, I don't know what to do On one hand, you don't want it to seem to her, or anyone else, that it gets to you, we understand that. On the other, you dread knowing that at some point you are going to read a post from the ex on her wall, "His name is Andy and he is the greatest guy ever.." Split the diff and make it so you cant see her news feeds...
USMCHokie Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 Yeah I know that but I don't want her to think bad of me. We share a lot of mutual friends on fb so she would know that I've deleted her, I don't know what to do What she thinks, knows, and/or feels is completely irrelevant to your life. Get over it.
Meaplus3 Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 What she thinks, knows, and/or feels is completely irrelevant to your life. Get over it. Exactly!! Mea:)
sphx26 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 What she thinks, knows, and/or feels is completely irrelevant to your life. Get over it. I COMPLETELY agree. Stop thinking about other people and for goodness sake, start thinking about how you feel. You matter. You are important. Most of all: You deserve to be happy, and in order for that to happen, you simply need to eliminate the things/people who make you sad.
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