bluz73 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I came to realize that the reason I am so upset still bout this whole mess is the fact that he toyed with my heart/mind to ultimately chose someone he met a few weeks before I was booted, REJECTION! I was rejected, Here I am a smart beautiful long blonde hair blue eyes thin maybe look about 25, at 37 with so much to offer and I am all alone and sad not over him, Its how it ended the rejection, I DONT want him he is no good for me Its she got to him and he broke my heart.. SHE is the one I despise, SHE is now living with him, SHE is the one that caused this. THEY are still together and I was hoping they just fall apart, I know its not all her fault but I somehow blame her and I HATE her for it. REJECTION SUCKS...I often wonder whats wrong with me? I get hit on all the time complimented on my looks and kindness....but I CANT MOVE ON YET! I just had to talk to someone, Im so alone and abandoned..I wish I could just go out and meet someone to help me thru this but I am so not ready
EthanH Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I can understand why you are making excuses for him, you still love him, and from your post, you are trying to fight with your emotions (saying you don't want him when you clearly still do)... but he is just as at fault as she is, probably more. He made the choice. You blame her, because to admit that you hate him is contradictory to your strong loving feelings to him. Don't go out and meet someone, you should only do that when you have got over this guy...if you meet someone, you will feel better for a bit, but then all the feelings of how much you still like your ex, you will compare anyone to him, will just make you miserable. The simple fact is, he doesn't deserve you. If you are down and upset and don't get over him, it is like you are accepting what he thought he was breaking up for you for, because he thought he could do better... that is only the case if you allow it to be so, if you want to, prove to yourself that he made a massive mistake and it is you who can do better...
Author bluz73 Posted April 26, 2010 Author Posted April 26, 2010 I can understand why you are making excuses for him, you still love him, and from your post, you are trying to fight with your emotions (saying you don't want him when you clearly still do)... but he is just as at fault as she is, probably more. He made the choice. You blame her, because to admit that you hate him is contradictory to your strong loving feelings to him. Don't go out and meet someone, you should only do that when you have got over this guy...if you meet someone, you will feel better for a bit, but then all the feelings of how much you still like your ex, you will compare anyone to him, will just make you miserable. The simple fact is, he doesn't deserve you. If you are down and upset and don't get over him, it is like you are accepting what he thought he was breaking up for you for, because he thought he could do better... that is only the case if you allow it to be so, if you want to, prove to yourself that he made a massive mistake and it is you who can do better... Thank you ethanh(my 2 yr old nephew has ur name and last name is h I dont really WANT him, I dont want her to have him...maybe someone else but HER an 18 yr old lil girl just makes me sick and what kills me the most she is all giddy and inlove with him and here I am sitting all alone and basically barely breathing. he told me during the breakup He loved me but his heart has moved on and he will always compare other girls to me??? He was hurt and sorry, but then he did the ultimate DAMAGE to me by changing his number and email...I had noway of talking it thru with him...it was really cold and heartless and I was confused and broken. So for him saying he will compare me to other girls means he wasnt over me? He just moved on cause he thought we wouldnt work in the long run? everyone on here says they have contact or friendships with their ex's HE NEVER GAVE ME THAT OPTION After 6 years it sucks to this day. I do have bitterness towards him, but knowing she took my man and is happy eats me up inside and is destroying my healing and I dont know how to stop it I just want them to break up and feel pain UGH!
Author bluz73 Posted April 27, 2010 Author Posted April 27, 2010 Anyone want to share their rejection stories and how you cope with feeling like a crappy person daily?
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