Engadget Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I just had the weirdest night of my life. I'm going to keep it short and sweet because I hate reading massive posts. Basically I went out with a group of my friends, my good friend Jack and his girlfriend, his brother Mark and his girlfriend Theresa and another friend Chuck. We drank a little then went out bowling and were having a good time. Now Theresa and Mark are in the military and dating although it's a secret because they could get into trouble. Well, Theresa got pretty drunk and was flirting with me harmlessly. I didn't think anything of it because it's just a friend thing and I wouldn't get involved with a taken girl, let alone one with a friend. Well waiting in line to get another game of bowling going, she playfully takes my phone and texts her own phone just saying "Hey theresa you're awesome" while allowing Mark to see it. Well, he flipped the hell out and threw beer on her and called her a whore, I got beer thrown on me and everyone stormed off. Needless to say the two girls were talking after and the torrent of "He's cheated on me, he treats me like ****" came. Now, I know that Mark has cheated on her more than she knows because of my friend Jack, his brother. The girls, Jack and me took off and left them at the bar in the bowling alley because I didn't feel like fighting Mark, because I know he wanted to. We went back to Jack's house and then it got weirder. Theresa continued drinking, and basically started being all over me. Rubbing her leg against mine, leaning her head on my shoulder, putting her arm through my arm...weird. Like I said, I don't want to be that guy but she seemed like she didn't care at the time, probably because she was drunk. Well Mark went off the reservation and wouldn't come home, and his brother basically said "He's never done this, not this badly". I ended up leaving at 2am and found my side view mirrors on my car smashed, one gone completely. According to Jack that's happened in their neighborhood before, but I'm not sure it wasn't Mark pissed at me, taking his anger out on my car. Anyway...wow. I guess I just needed to vent, but I have no idea what's going to happen now. Mark is obviously going nuts because he has cheated on his girlfriend, and he's in the accusatory/paranoid mindset because of it.
MichelleZB Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 It doesn't count as being a homewrecker if the couple isn't even living togehter. You just happened to be in the vicinity when a couple's relationship imploded, that's all. They weren't compatible and it was supposed to end. I hope they all just get some distance from each other and chill out.
Author Engadget Posted April 26, 2010 Author Posted April 26, 2010 It doesn't count as being a homewrecker if the couple isn't even living togehter. You just happened to be in the vicinity when a couple's relationship imploded, that's all. They weren't compatible and it was supposed to end. I hope they all just get some distance from each other and chill out. Well homewrecker doesn't need to be literal, it can be used as breaking a couple up.
MichelleZB Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 Well homewrecker doesn't need to be literal, it can be used as breaking a couple up. Yes, and I don't really think the OP did that either. As I said, he just happened to witness a relationship implode.
D-Lish Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 Why are you a homewrecker? You just got used as a pawn in someone elses drama.
fiat500 Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 i'd stay away from that girl if i were you. she initiated this whole blow up with her stupidity. what is up with military people cheating? i was in the military for a short stint and couldn't believe all the waves of infidelity.
Joe Normal Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 And the lesson is, always put a PIN on your cellphone
WithOrWithoutYou Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 I'm going to go with the majority here, and say you just got caught up in other people's drama. It sounds like you really didn't do anything all that wrong. If he did smash the mirrors on your car, that is incredibly uncool (and a violation of man law - if you have a problem with a guy, you talk with the guy, not trash his car). Of course, you don't really know for sure he did that, even though it seems somewhat likely. My advice is be done with both of them. They do not sound like very stable people, and the more unstable people you can eliminate from your life, the happier you will be. Now, if you did find out he trashed your mirrors, I realize the temptation to call up his girlfriend and um, "ask her out", would be very strong. My advice is still to be done with both of them, as it just isn't worth it. The night or two of fun you might get is totally not worth the drama it will bring into your life.
Author Engadget Posted May 12, 2010 Author Posted May 12, 2010 I'm going to go with the majority here, and say you just got caught up in other people's drama. It sounds like you really didn't do anything all that wrong. If he did smash the mirrors on your car, that is incredibly uncool (and a violation of man law - if you have a problem with a guy, you talk with the guy, not trash his car). Of course, you don't really know for sure he did that, even though it seems somewhat likely. My advice is be done with both of them. They do not sound like very stable people, and the more unstable people you can eliminate from your life, the happier you will be. Now, if you did find out he trashed your mirrors, I realize the temptation to call up his girlfriend and um, "ask her out", would be very strong. My advice is still to be done with both of them, as it just isn't worth it. The night or two of fun you might get is totally not worth the drama it will bring into your life. The police just called me yesterday and followed up on what happened. He asked if I was seeing a girl with a boyfriend/ex who could have done this. It's funny, everyone's convinced an angry boyfriend did it, and a boyfriend was very, very angry that night. Something still tells me he did it, but I have no proof. If anyone knows, they won't tell me because my friend is his brother and I know he wouldn't say it.
Enema Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Something is wrong with my browser, the pics of Theresa aren't loading
some_dude123 Posted May 13, 2010 Posted May 13, 2010 It sounds to me like the once courageous man has caused her suffering from his past cheating and lowered her self esteem also making him insecure while feeling dead inside.
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