Away Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 and all of a sudden all these negative thoughts have popped into my head. What is wrong with me? I'm meeting him in my home town in a few days. We're taking a trip together from there, with my parents and siblings, and he will meet most of my extended family (aunts, uncles, cousins). We're coming back here to where I live, and he will only be here for 2 days... during which he has already planned to see his friends (he used to live here)... he is then going to his home town to visit his parents (alone), and is coming back the night before his flight leaves. I haven't seen him in FIVE months... and in this whole trip, I see no alone time for us. I know that most of it will be spent with my family... but still.. I would think that he would want at least ONE day with me alone. Maybe I'm being silly... since in a little over a month I will be flying to where he lives, and will stay there for 2 and a half months. Maybe he thinks we'll get plenty of alone time there... I have so many negative feelings lately... like this is all going to go down the drain and we're just wasting our times. SHouldn't I be happy, and think that I'm going to see him soon and everything will be better??? Ughhh Whatever...
CodenameD Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Just be patient and let things flow. Right now there is NOTHING wrong with your relationship. So Don't sweat about being alone you will most definitely have it And this is one of those days. It would be worrisome if it happened to you everyday. Bit since it's not, just chill and relax and enjoy with your bf. Remember: patience is a virtue!
Romance Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 well 2.5 months is a long time, I wouldn;t worry about it.
Author Away Posted April 26, 2010 Author Posted April 26, 2010 Thanks... You're both right... I will stop with this nonsense and enjoy my time with my boyfriend
zebracolors Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 If you and the guy still feel the same for each other after 5 months, and I figure your first meet with him went well, then then things should be okay. I think I understand your concerns. Maybe you want to know that he is going to like your family and that they like him, and you're the in-between. If your family loves you they will want you to be happy, so they will have an open mind about meeting the guy I think.
Deeblondie82 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 I know its going to be hard. I mean I am going to see my guy(not my bf just yet) in 9 days and get to spend 5 days and am nervous to meet his family. (flying to see him) Then it be a few months till I get to see him. You will be okay just enjoy what time you do get with him... I also have had them negative thoughts that you have got and they will go away.. Once you see him and spend time with him you will know if it will be something you want to continue, just enjoy the experence
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