Jesper Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 (edited) Yesterday I was helping my bf clean out his garage when he found an expensive piece of equipment belonging to his ex-gf that she thought she had lost. He texted her asking if it was hers. She replied that it was, and that she wanted to use it this Tuesday, and since she wasn't going to be seeing him until Wednesday, could he meet her somewhere to give it back to her. So today she texts him saying that she's going to be at X place at X time today, can he bring it there. This is out of my bf's way, and interrupts plans that we had today. I'm pretty angry, and think that if she wants her damn thingy she should come get it, or wait until Wednesday. I especially don't see why it's essential she get it in time to use for Tuesday since she "lost" this thing 3 years ago, and she wasn't planning on using it anyways. Am I being a bitch, and how would you handle this? Edited April 25, 2010 by Jesper
Rorschach Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Sounds like the EX is just a little controlling, I wouldn't go out of my way for her.
EasyHeart Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 It sounds to me like he's just being a decent guy to someone who was once very important in his life. It's not like he's sneaking around behind his back. You don't have to hate your ex just because things didn't work out. Would you really want to date a guy who was ****ty to his ex-girlfriend?
Ruby Slippers Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 This is out of my bf's way, and interrupts plans that we had today. If my boyfriend interrupted our plans to drop something off to his ex at her whim, that would be very uncool.
EYECANDY000 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 On one hand I want to say maybe he just wants to give it to her and be completely done with it but on the other hand if he is interrupting plans between you two then it seems like he just really wants to see her. Were you going to be present when he takes it to her?
DustySaltus Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 If it's a continual pattern I could see why you would be upset. I agree that she should come and get it herself but he is just being a decent guy. You should be happy to have him.
Green Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Why does he even still see his ex? Does he work with her or go to school with her? Very uncool, real boundary issues here and disrespecful to you.
Green Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 If it's a continual pattern I could see why you would be upset. I agree that she should come and get it herself but he is just being a decent guy. You should be happy to have him. Nothing decent about what he did. Sounds like a lame guy who causes drama to me
Author Jesper Posted April 25, 2010 Author Posted April 25, 2010 It sounds to me like he's just being a decent guy to someone who was once very important in his life. It's not like he's sneaking around behind his back. You don't have to hate your ex just because things didn't work out. Would you really want to date a guy who was ****ty to his ex-girlfriend? Frankly, I think it's great and decent of him to either bring someone who is no longer an important part of his life her stuff on Wednesday, OR let her know when we're going to be home so she can come get it herself earlier. I think it's going too far for him to interrupt our plans to go meet her at her convenience.
Author Jesper Posted April 25, 2010 Author Posted April 25, 2010 Were you going to be present when he takes it to her? Nope, he didn't invite me to come with him. He's going to a bar, so I told him he's not allowed to stay and hang out or let her buy him a drink as a "thank you" unless he wants me to come with him. Why does he even still see his ex? Does he work with her or go to school with her? Along these lines. Since he sees her regularly, I really don't think he should be doing this. If she wants her damn stuff before then she should come get it herself, and I can't believe that he's going along with that.
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