weeble78 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Hey guys I've posted on here several times. Me and my BF have been together nearly 6 months and I'm aware that this is a time you either make it or break it i.e. you both pull away slightly and start coming out of the bubble you've been in the last few months. The thing is, how do you know that you're just coming out of the bubble or whether you're actually pulling away because you realise you're not that compatible for each other? I don't know whether I'm just stressing or not, but I'm thinking about my relationship a lot and wondering if most of it's not just based on sex. Is that possible after 6 months? We spend all day each day emailing at work, meet each other for lunch once a week, hang out on a saturday night and sometimes Sunday day, see each other maybe 3 times in the week. Also crossing my mind is perhaps what it'd be like to move in together - is this too early? (I'm 32, he's 36) - we've never really mentioned the subject. In a previous post, somebody said I could be Ms Right Now as opposed to Ms Right - how do I figure which I am?
Fouts Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Usually if things are going well and are fresh at the 6 month mark, it's a sign that it can be a nice LTR. Keeping someone around for 6 months for sex? Not likely. I know I never would. You'd know I was seeing other people as well if that's the case, I wouldn't be exclusive with you. So it wouldn't have that fresh, fun feel, it'd be an occasional date with the expectation of a romp in the sack after.
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