Brandy228 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Hey all ... not sure whether my instincts are correct on this one or not, but I suspect my SO is using a track phone or disposable phone to call someone. I have searched his truck over pretty thoroughly during a time frame he would have had his guard down (he was at work, didn't know I would be in the area at the time). I'm thinking he could be leaving it at his work every night when he comes home. I have mulled over the idea of getting a small recorder to hide inside his truck. I guess it's the only way I could possibly know whether he's talking to that bitch anymore or not. It just seems so over the top and stalker-ish. I've already checked his bank records for any sign of a disposable phone, buying minutes, etc. I don't see anything out of the ordinary. It just drives me NUTS to think he could possibly be pulling another fast one on me, and I'd have no idea.
D-Lish Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Trust your gut, it's the best spyware you have. If you believe he is cheating, he probably is. So, do something about it and leave him.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Hey all ... not sure whether my instincts are correct on this one or not, but I suspect my SO is using a track phone or disposable phone to call someone. I have searched his truck over pretty thoroughly during a time frame he would have had his guard down (he was at work, didn't know I would be in the area at the time). I'm thinking he could be leaving it at his work every night when he comes home. I have mulled over the idea of getting a small recorder to hide inside his truck. I guess it's the only way I could possibly know whether he's talking to that bitch anymore or not. It just seems so over the top and stalker-ish. I've already checked his bank records for any sign of a disposable phone, buying minutes, etc. I don't see anything out of the ordinary. It just drives me NUTS to think he could possibly be pulling another fast one on me, and I'd have no idea. Why do you even want to be with some one you have to worry this much about? to me if I had that kinda doubt id be gone.
Spark1111 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 How much cash can you secret away? You could get a voice activated recorder and hide it under his truck seat. And/or you could add a GPS tracking device to his truck. That will tell you where he drives to.
Fouts Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I agree with D-Lish and Spanks, if your suspicions are that strong, I'm sure they're right. And if you're life is such a neurotic mess having to stress over it, why on earth put yourself through it? The cash to keep one of those disposable phones going are minimal, he doesn't need to show bank transactions to have it. So if you want to record and track his words and movements to know if he loves you, thats about your only option.
eddie_d_2000 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 I am with the others, my wife had an A on me, she bought a goPhone to talk to the guy. She has always said they are just friends but she did sleep with the guy and contact with him afterwards was just unacceptable for me so it was quit or I was gone. She has kept up with her end of the bargain and I have learned to just let things go or I will go crazy like you are. If they can't keep themselves pure for you, then it isn't worth worrying over, move on.
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