MrNate Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I've often wondered what were some of the main problems women face when dating men? Is it hard for most women to find good men? Is there a constant worry about being used for sex? And what would you say constitutes a man as a possible suitable mate? Rather what are you searching for?
marsle85 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 For me, it's being used for sex. I've been in a lot of instances where that really, truly seems like the case. It's unsettling. :-(
Sweetie1977 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Judging how important sex is to these broads these days i dont know how scared they actually are..
pureinheart Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I've often wondered what were some of the main problems women face when dating men? I don't date, it's too much work. Is it hard for most women to find good men? I'm not looking. Is there a constant worry about being used for sex? No, I don't leave any area open to be used. And what would you say constitutes a man as a possible suitable mate? Rather what are you searching for? He will find me. I don't have to do anything.
starwolf242 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Personally I find there is always confusion about what exactly he is after. I am only ever looking for a relationship and if i don't want one, i don't date. But men sometimes tell me they want the same thing just because they know they'll get further than if they come straight out and say they only want sex. once they get what they want i either get the cold shoulder, the old i'm just not ready for someone as great as you bs or some other cop out and left wondering how the hell i misjudged it. That's happened alot to me and it wears you down. All i want is a handsome, kind, loving, respectful guy who won't mess me about and likes me for me whether i look pretty or hideous. Too much to ask?
Author MrNate Posted April 25, 2010 Author Posted April 25, 2010 For me, it's being used for sex. I've been in a lot of instances where that really, truly seems like the case. It's unsettling. :-( Hm. I could see how that could become a challenge as to getting around that problem without coming across as a prude. So how do you try and overcome that problem? Or do you just hope for the best?
Recommended Posts