ssscsam Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 So I've been dating this girl for 2 months, and she gets sexually aroused a lot, she sends me texts about her being horny. However, I have not made any sexual moves on her besides making out with her and etc. I think she is being sexually deprived maybe? Because she says she wants to tell me something but I have to figure it out myself. And when asked for a hint, her only hint was, It's not supposed to be talked about or said, and it's already happening and it's not supposed to happen. I asked her if she wanted me to be more aggressive, or if it was about a relationship and she said no. Then I asked her if it had to do with feelings and she said yes, then I asked if its good or bad feelings and she said "it's in between, but it has to do with feelings" I've begged her to tell me but she will not tell me at all. She said I should be able to figure it out or already figured it out already and that she's confident I'll figure it out.. she said if I do not figure it out it can be risky for us, but she wants me to figure it out by myself. I am so confused, does anyone know what it can mean?
BubbleFreak Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 My immediate thought is that she must be wet.
Author ssscsam Posted April 25, 2010 Author Posted April 25, 2010 so you think she's sexually deprived? She told me to think outside the box when she said "it's something thats not supposed to be said"
RainDown Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 So I've been dating this girl for 2 months, and she gets sexually aroused a lot, she sends me texts about her being horny. However, I have not made any sexual moves on her besides making out with her and etc. I think she is being sexually deprived maybe? Because she says she wants to tell me something but I have to figure it out myself. And when asked for a hint, her only hint was, It's not supposed to be talked about or said, and it's already happening and it's not supposed to happen. I asked her if she wanted me to be more aggressive, or if it was about a relationship and she said no. Then I asked her if it had to do with feelings and she said yes, then I asked if its good or bad feelings and she said "it's in between, but it has to do with feelings" I've begged her to tell me but she will not tell me at all. She said I should be able to figure it out or already figured it out already and that she's confident I'll figure it out.. she said if I do not figure it out it can be risky for us, but she wants me to figure it out by myself. I am so confused, does anyone know what it can mean? Frankly, it's not your job, or ours, to figure out what she means. It's her job to properly and clearly articulate what she means so that other people have a prayer of understanding it. Once she learns how to do that perhaps you, and we, will be less confused.
Kamille Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 What do you mean by sexually deprived? Do you mean sexually frustrated or sexually depraved (as in sexually adventurous)? Yes, maybe all she's trying to hint is that she wants to have sex.
Author ssscsam Posted April 25, 2010 Author Posted April 25, 2010 Like I mean, is it that she wants me to make the move
BubbleFreak Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 so you think she's sexually deprived? She told me to think outside the box when she said "it's something thats not supposed to be said" No, I have no idea if she sexually deprived or not. I just said I think she is trying to tell you she is wet (and horny). It's just a guess and makes sense to me given the context you have described. Anyways, I don't enjoy cryptic conversations and always think being straight forward is the best way to go.
Kamille Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Like I mean, is it that she wants me to make the move make a move and find out.
ADF Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Frankly, this woman sounds a bit manipulative to me. Teasing can be all in good fun, but it sounds like she's taking it a bit far. Just ask her to stop the nonsense and tell you.
Pleco Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 it's already happening and it's not supposed to happen. And it's about feelings? lol she's trying to say that she loves you, but doesn't want to say it herself. Probably wants you to say it first. If it were about sex, she wouldn't have said it had to do with feelings, would she? Guys. But she sounds pretty young. Or dumb. Or maybe both.
BubbleFreak Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Then I asked her if it had to do with feelings and she said yes, then I asked if its good or bad feelings and she said "it's in between, but it has to do with feelings" If it was love it wouldn't be "in between", it would be majorly good feelings. "In between" connotes in between her legs. And if it's about feelings then she is wet and horny. Plus all the other sexual stuff mentioned is how I came to the conclusion.
Author ssscsam Posted April 26, 2010 Author Posted April 26, 2010 (edited) And it's about feelings? lol she's trying to say that she loves you, but doesn't want to say it herself. Probably wants you to say it first. If it were about sex, she wouldn't have said it had to do with feelings, would she? Yeah but it could be horny feelings? Plus if it was love, why would it be in between feelings and something thats not supposed to be said Edited April 26, 2010 by ssscsam
Kamille Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 My guess is she has an std. ____________________ Note to ssscsam: make a move already- but use a condom!
BubbleFreak Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 My guess is she has an std. LOL! Maybe she has a penis.
SouthernSunshine Posted April 26, 2010 Posted April 26, 2010 How old is she? I stopped playing the guessing game when I was a kid.. LOL! Maybe she has a penis. ROFL!!!
Author ssscsam Posted April 26, 2010 Author Posted April 26, 2010 yeah i told her she was being immature, she's 3 years older than me
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