LoveLace Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 I'm curious, when it comes to a woman and what you are attracted to, how important is body size/shape and/or a pretty face? Let's pretend personality can't be a contributing factor to beauty here. (BTW, I'd like to make this a man-bashing free thread and have us all be open minded to opinions, lol). Can you live with a pretty face and a body that's not your usual preference, or vice-versa? Is anything a MUST-have for you? (ex, blue eyes) What can you not tolerate what so ever (ex, too thin)? What do you highly prefer, but could manage to live without? What have you been able to tolerate that you wouldn't normally tolerate (ex, short hair, long hair, etc..)?..If it so applies.. Overall, what is most important for you when it comes to beauty...aside from a great personality... I am just very curious to see what various answers could come from this..
alphamale Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Can you live with a pretty face and a body that's not your usual preference, or vice-versa? no Is anything a MUST-have for you? (ex, blue eyes) What can you not tolerate what so ever (ex, too thin)? nice feet and legs What do you highly prefer, but could manage to live without? natural blonde hair What have you been able to tolerate that you wouldn't normally tolerate (ex, short hair, long hair, etc..)?..If it so applies.. her being dumb Overall, what is most important for you when it comes to beauty...aside from a great personality... .. girly femininity
Author LoveLace Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 Ladies can answer too of course, my curiosity of the men is just for obvious reasons (because I like guys, lol).
Author LoveLace Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 Thanks Alpha...being dumb is in reference to personality though, my questions are aimed at physical attributes..
alphamale Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Thanks Alpha...being dumb is in reference to personality though, my questions are aimed at physical attributes.. being a bit overweight is ok
2.50 a gallon Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I am no longer available, but in the past I liked my ladies. The more the merrier. I found that there were two types in my eyes, dating and LTR. LTR women had to be 5' 2" or taller, long not skinny legs, hair long below her shoulders, breasts C, weight 110 -125, also had to have an hour glass figure, and a face I can kiss good morning / good night and many times in between for the rest of my life. Dating: She could fall below these standards, but not by very much. I was called a male chauvinist pig many times for my standards, but the truth is that if she was too skinny, or overweight I quite simply was not sexually interested and there was no way I could perform. Hair color, I prefered dark brown to black, eye color brown. But XW was red head with blue eyes. To show you how important this was to me, the girl I was engaged to had all of the physical attributes, including the eye and hair color. She had everything, was fun to be around, and was great in bed, and I especially loved looking directly into her eyes. She had the most beautiful bedroom eyes I have ever seen. I even loved her voice. But then, she coped an attitude of she had found her man, and started to let herself go. Gained weight, cut her hair (it was too hard to take care of), etc., and then began to complain that our sex life went in the dumper. There was nothing I could do, she no longer turned me on.
RobM Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I have absolutely no rules, if forced to build a perfect woman I would probably pick a certain type, but truthfully I find women of all sizes and shapes and types attractive. Some women just have a certain spark, maybe it's their shape or their smile or how happy they look, but they just attract my attention.
BubbleFreak Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Some women just have a certain spark, maybe it's their shape or their smile or how happy they look, but they just attract my attention. That could explain why, at one point in my life when I was constantly happy and smiley and friendly, I got asked out a lot by random guys (and a girl) in random situations. These days I rarely get asked out (cranky face, lol). To answer the OP, what I find attractive in men changes, must be the hormones. Sometimes I love big shoulders and arms, broad neck, V shaped torso, strong and masculine, chiselled features. Other times I like the nerdy look, someone with glasses and looks intelligent. Always, gotta be taller than me though. Might sound weird but I think my preferences change depending on my monthly cycle.
shadowofman Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Can you live with a pretty face and a body that's not your usual preference, or vice-versa? Um, I can live with a lot if I'm in love I guess. Either extreme weight would be problematic. Is anything a MUST-have for you? (ex, blue eyes) What can you not tolerate what so ever (ex, too thin)? Symmetry is the most important aspect to beauty for me. If there is a severe asymmetry, I would not be able to avoid the distraction. What do you highly prefer, but could manage to live without? I highly prefer black hair, blue eyes, lean body, a particular sense of style. What have you been able to tolerate that you wouldn't normally tolerate (ex, short hair, long hair, etc..)?..If it so applies.. Luckily I my tolerance has not really been tested in my relationships. Overall, what is most important for you when it comes to beauty...aside from a great personality... As stated, symmetry is number one. Shapeliness is a close second. I have had the pleasure of being with very well proportioned and shaped women from A cups to D cups. All amazing asses. Some taller, some shorter. Long hair and short hair. Blondes and brunettes. Some prettier in the face than others, but a great catalog. Proud of every one. On some more specific notes, here are some more attractive traits: long thick lashes tons of eye makeup (the more smeared, the better) dimples of venus iliac furrow the curve at the underside of an ass areola (the smaller, the better) nipple (the larger, the better) tattoos (good ones, haha) piercings (especially nipples and clitoris)
runner Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I'm curious, when it comes to a woman and what you are attracted to, how important is body size/shape and/or a pretty face? Let's pretend personality can't be a contributing factor to beauty here. (BTW, I'd like to make this a man-bashing free thread and have us all be open minded to opinions, lol). first: i prefer she'd be in similar trim, or better; currently not in the best trim, but i could drop the extra pounds fairly easily if i worked on it. secondly: around my height, give or take a couple inches. lastly: yes, pretty face is a given; and pretty in my estimation, not by society's standards. Can you live with a pretty face and a body that's not your usual preference, or vice-versa? been there before, so yes. "never thought i'd be attracted to ____, but there you go." Is anything a MUST-have for you? (ex, blue eyes) What can you not tolerate what so ever (ex, too thin)? one: over-all attractive figure from head to toe; makes me feel even when i'm not looking directly at her. two: obesity. What do you highly prefer, but could manage to live without? freckles What have you been able to tolerate that you wouldn't normally tolerate (ex, short hair, long hair, etc..)?..If it so applies.. n/a. sorry - i suppose i'm what you would call the unforgiving type. it either works for me or it doesn't Overall, what is most important for you when it comes to beauty...aside from a great personality... i normally attach a great personality in my estimation of real beauty, so ... n/a
Samari Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I'm curious, when it comes to a woman and what you are attracted to, how important is body size/shape and/or a pretty face? Let's pretend personality can't be a contributing factor to beauty here. (BTW, I'd like to make this a man-bashing free thread and have us all be open minded to opinions, lol). Can you live with a pretty face and a body that's not your usual preference, or vice-versa? Is anything a MUST-have for you? (ex, blue eyes) What can you not tolerate what so ever (ex, too thin)? What do you highly prefer, but could manage to live without? What have you been able to tolerate that you wouldn't normally tolerate (ex, short hair, long hair, etc..)?..If it so applies.. Overall, what is most important for you when it comes to beauty...aside from a great personality... I am just very curious to see what various answers could come from this.. I do have my preferences, like a lot of people on this planet. When it comes to women any ethnicity or nationality is fine with me. I'll make that perfectly clear. A pretty woman is a pretty woman period. I'll be honest though, physical beauty I hold in high regard. Just as much if not more so than persona. Now this doesn't mean I'm looking for super models. But I'm almost always attracted to women that are slender/athletic/reasonably skinny. Adding to that, a woman with a nice backside is great. This doesn't mean I like women that have a big ass, but I do like it when a girl has some nice volume to her butt. You can have a small body girl (like my current girlfriend) while still having a butt with a good amount of volume to it...which I guess a better way of saying is that it's decently sized for the size of her own body. Unfortunately she's kind of flat in the chest area (around a 32A size), but I could live with that I suppose. I would like her to be more enthusiastic under the sheets though. She's really lacking in that area. But no one is perfect, and I realize that. She has fantastic legs though which I love as well. Most importantly, she has a pretty face. Truly a great girl.
Ariadne Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 nice feet and legs 5' 2" or taller long not skinny legs hair long below her shoulders breasts C weight 110 -125 hour glass figure face I can kiss black hair blue eyes lean body particular sense of style symmetry is number one long thick lashes tons of eye makeup (the more smeared, the better) dimples of venus iliac furrow the curve at the underside of an ass similar trim, or better pretty face is a given attractive figure from head to toe physical beauty I hold in high regard. Just as much if not more so than persona. women that are slender/athletic/reasonably skinny a nice backside is great some nice volume to her butt (Taking note of what is important. Must need to work on it to find a rich husband).
SadandConfusedWA Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 (Taking note of what is important. Must need to work on it to find a rich husband). I think that we both have some of these traits A. Note how men prefer dark hair (+1 for you)...men generally dislike blondes so I have colored my hair dark a few times but it just doesn't suit my complexion. Slim/slender is a tricky one but we both have great overall shape and proportions - and a$$ too (+1 for both!).
Ariadne Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I think that we both have some of these traits A. Note how men prefer dark hair (+1 for you)...men generally dislike blondes so I have colored my hair dark a few times but it just doesn't suit my complexion. Slim/slender is a tricky one but we both have great overall shape and proportions - and a$$ too (+1 for both!). You are the person that has the body most like mine that I've ever met (though I'm bigger than you now). Well, some prefer blonde blue eyed so +1 for you. That doesn't seem so important as "skinny" though.
Citizen Erased Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Judging by the amount of guys that check me out now versus this time last year when I was about 30 pounds heavier (oh yeah, medication is fuuuuun), I'd have to go with skinny is incredibly important. I've been slim my whole life apart from about a 1-2 year window and it was interesting to see the differences.
SadandConfusedWA Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 You are the person that has the body most like mine that I've ever met (though I'm bigger than you now). Well, some prefer blonde blue eyed so +1 for you. That doesn't seem so important as "skinny" though. Anyone can get skinny if they try hard enough...it's just that my motivation is low. I would rather eat cake.
Citizen Erased Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Anyone can get skinny if they try hard enough...it's just that my motivation is low. I would rather eat cake. Don't do it, eat cake. I miss cake.
SadandConfusedWA Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Judging by the amount of guys that check me out now versus this time last year when I was about 30 pounds heavier (oh yeah, medication is fuuuuun), I'd have to go with skinny is incredibly important. I've been slim my whole life apart from about a 1-2 year window and it was interesting to see the differences. I have been both, although never even remotely obese or anorexecially thin and when I am slimmer I get TONS more attention. Sad but so true.
Ariadne Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I have been both, although never even remotely obese or anorexecially thin and when I am slimmer I get TONS more attention. Sad but so true. Me too. It's a "huge" difference. You go from being checked by every man in the room to not exist depending on the weight and sexy clothes.
SadandConfusedWA Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Me too. It's a "huge" difference. You go from being checked by every man in the room to not exist depending on the weight and sexy clothes. It's like you get more invisible by each additonal pound
Citizen Erased Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I have been both, although never even remotely obese or anorexecially thin and when I am slimmer I get TONS more attention. Sad but so true. Even now, I'm a size 6...that would turn some guys off. Which is fair enough, we all have our "preferences". I for one am not perfect so I don't demand the same from my partner. I would hope that men or women judging someone as imperfect due to one of their preferences not being met would adopt the same attitude. Doubtful though.
Ariadne Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Even now, I'm a size 6...that would turn some guys off. Which is fair enough, we all have our "preferences". (It's not a "preference". They simply can't perform sexually if you are not perfect).
SadandConfusedWA Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Even now, I'm a size 6...that would turn some guys off. Which is fair enough, we all have our "preferences". I for one am not perfect so I don't demand the same from my partner. I would hope that men or women judging someone as imperfect due to one of their preferences not being met would adopt the same attitude. Doubtful though. Size 6 Australian or US? You look great either way... I have seen a larger pic in Pyro's album I also don't expect a guy to have perfect body or even close to. I am fine as long as he is not obese or ultra skinny.
Citizen Erased Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 (It's not a "preference". They simply can't perform sexually if you are not perfect). Well I guess they aren't going to ever get any because nobody is perfect, ever ever never.
SadandConfusedWA Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 (It's not a "preference". They simply can't perform sexually if you are not perfect). I think that most can....they just want to kick you out of bed afterwards
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