Thebob Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 So this girl that I hooked up with over spring break, we used to talk all the time even 1 month and 2 weeks after she left back to the Midwest. I been trying to convince her to come up and visit when I come back to my home-state. 9-10 days ago she said that she has a date set and what not. Anyways, her birthday was a few days ago and I sent her a text wishin her a happy-bday, no response. I try to avoid talking to her everyday because there is no point to talk everyday so when I text her she is like OMG he texted me. I been trying to 1nce ever 5-10 day thing just to see if she is comin up still to visit so we can re-connect. Anyways I hit her up on facebook today and i ask her how her b-day was again she sends a response that isn't really initiating then i ask her how she is looking forwards to goin to grad school and she doesn't respond and goes idle. In her eyes do I look to desperate if I contact 1nce a week if that? I'm trying to re-connect because she wanted to date me but distance once again screwed me over. My buddy is with her friend and they been talking for 2 months now, and he told me that they are still planning on coming up, but since my girl ignored my first text then isn't really acting interested in the facebook message what do you all think? she told me back in the day that she wants to but she wants her friend to come with her because her friend is dating my buddy. idk... Thebob
sagetalk Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 When girls act like this it is usually one of two things: 1. She's a nut job 2. There is another guy she likes that lives closer Either way, it's usually bad news.
skydiveaddict Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 When girls act like this it is usually one of two things: 1. She's a nut job 2. There is another guy she likes that lives closer Either way, it's usually bad news. yes I would agree. She really doesnt sound interested
ReadyforLove Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 If she were sincerely interested in you she would be making more of an effort.
Author Thebob Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 that's what I think. Even when we were talking back in the day, she would respond every 20-30 minutes.... I mean she wanted to date if I was closer but I am not. I am just tryin to get her to come up when Im back to visit in which she was thoroughly excited about. Do you think I should stop trying to contact her? or should i keep trying to? I plan on dumpin her completely after i head back from my vacation so women do not judge me. I am just using my options that I have currently. And Yea she could be a nutjob cause the last conversation she initiated with me was like 10 days ago, and she randomly told me that she purchased a mechanical pleasure machine.. I wasn't expecting that at all and haven't heard a peep from her since. SO idk what this girl is doing lol.
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