Whitefox123 Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Finally....I am starting to believe I'm over my ex. Took nearly 2 years, but I am out there in the dating world again...and not even thinking about him anymore. We've been on strict N/C for about a month now...and I feel so accomplished...I've waited for this moment for awhile! Anyway, I recently met someone new (I met him after I went NC with the ex and right when I stopped giving a s*** about him) and I like him a lot and it scares me. We met online, and have gone out on 2 dates. So far things are going well...we kissed on our 2nd date and even admitted to liking what we know about each other, which is awesome....but I have this fear that I'm going to do something stupid and mess things up. I'm trying to 'play it cool' and basically let him chase me but at the same time I want to make sure he knows I'm really interested in him. We were actually supposed to have a movie night one night but he had to break plans with me...I was bummed, but I tried to act like I didn't care because I don't want to come across as 'needy' especially this early on! Since it's been awhile, I was wondering if you guys could give me some tips on how to keep a balance between being interested but not overly interested...and any other tips on how to get to know him a little better...because for all I know he could be a total jerk. I'd rather take things slow and find out sooner rather than later!
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