kaylee47 Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Hi guys, i need advice. Recently, me and my ex boyfriend were hanging out everyday, etc. we were getting along fine, and everything seemed to be going good. Well, one night, we got arrested becuase he had stuff in the car, and my car got towed. When my car had gotten towed, his guitar was in it. Ever since then, hes told me that he doesnt want to talk anymore, he makes excuses, and says we cant be friends anymore. Hes not respectful. We were hanging out everyday doing what he wanted before, and now he doesnt have an interest in doing it anymore so he deosnt want to hang out.I feel like he had been using me for 2 months while we were hanging out because I do alot for him- buy him food, gas, etc. I really have asked him to treat me with more respect, but he doesnt. My question is, would you give him back his guitar, and go out of your way, when hes done nothing good for you, except used you. Or would you keep it, and just ignore him about it.
hopesndreams Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Don't go out of your way to return the guitar. Have him come round and fetch it, at your convenience.
Author kaylee47 Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 Yeah thats what i was thinking about doing, but his mom keeps showing up at my place for it. Yes, hes almost 20 and his moms involved. I try to explain to him i want to give it to him directly, but he just ignores what im saying. I dont know how to get through to him
hopesndreams Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Why do you want to give it back to him directly?
EricaH329 Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Yeah thats what i was thinking about doing, but his mom keeps showing up at my place for it. Yes, hes almost 20 and his moms involved. I try to explain to him i want to give it to him directly, but he just ignores what im saying. I dont know how to get through to him So his mom has already come for it, and you decided not to give it to her?
GrayClouds Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 (edited) Yeah thats what i was thinking about doing, but his mom keeps showing up at my place for it. Yes, hes almost 20 and his moms involved. I try to explain to him i want to give it to him directly, but he just ignores what im saying. I dont know how to get through to him Stop playing games and find a way to give him his items. Give it to his mom, have mutual friend take it to him, drop it off at a third party just stop holding it hostage and using it as a excuse to make talk to you. In your own words he used you, not a great influence and not introspected in a relationship, the quicker and cleaner you move on from this mess the better. Edited April 24, 2010 by GrayClouds
Sassafras Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 I agree with GrayClouds. Give it back to him (or his Mom) and move on.
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