bluz73 Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 So I been ranting and raving on here about how my ex left and shacked up with an 18 yr old girl...Well needless to say I feel sorry for her I guess cause I am a mother of 2 teens. I have a HUGE heart full of love even to strangers and wouldnt wish death on my worst enemy..so here is the story... I got word today that this girl's brother was tragically killed in a firey Motorcycle crash last night..GET THIS on MY EX"S Birthday (her new BF) and that her brother didnt want her with him or live with him and asked her to move in with him, but instead she moved 800 miles away from him and hasnt spoke to him in a month...This could be KARMA or just a tragedy, but even though I am hurt she has my man, I feel the need to reach out to her and say Im terribly sorry, cause my heart aches for a loss like this...WHAT should I do? Thank you
TaraMaiden Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 I believe you could tell your ex- your feelings but maybe leave well alone with her. She must be feeling awful and at 18 may not be mature enough to understand the intention of your kindness. Tell your ex, that whatever the situation, you send your condolences and feel very sorry for what has happened. You wish her well. That's just my 2 cents....
Author bluz73 Posted April 23, 2010 Author Posted April 23, 2010 I believe you could tell your ex- your feelings but maybe leave well alone with her. She must be feeling awful and at 18 may not be mature enough to understand the intention of your kindness. Tell your ex, that whatever the situation, you send your condolences and feel very sorry for what has happened. You wish her well. That's just my 2 cents.... well when we broke up he was a coward and changed his number/email address So I have no way of contacting him..she has wrote me on facebook but has not blocked me, i may just do that...im unsure, cause my good deeds always seem to backfire
hopesndreams Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 Do nothing. Let her bf, your ex, comfort her.
Author bluz73 Posted April 23, 2010 Author Posted April 23, 2010 Do nothing. Let her bf, your ex, comfort her. WOW the oddest thing happened she sent me a message via myspace telling me she is putting her 22 yr old brother in the ground...???? I find this odd for her to tell me this..so i replied with my condolences. As for my ex he has never in his life dealt with personal death, never been to a funeral and when someone crys He seems emotionaless..I can just imagine how weird he is acting bout this considering her brother wanted her to move in with him and not my ex and he died on MY EX"S BD??? WOW KARMA IS ALL I CAN SAY
hopesndreams Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 WOW the oddest thing happened she sent me a message via myspace telling me she is putting her 22 yr old brother in the ground...???? I find this odd for her to tell me this..so i replied with my condolences. As for my ex he has never in his life dealt with personal death, never been to a funeral and when someone crys He seems emotionaless..I can just imagine how weird he is acting bout this considering her brother wanted her to move in with him and not my ex and he died on MY EX"S BD??? WOW KARMA IS ALL I CAN SAY You didn't say in original post that you got the message about her brother dying by her, through myspace. Why are you communicating with the girl your bf left you for? Death? Karma? No. Her brother dying isn't about Karma.
Author bluz73 Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 You didn't say in original post that you got the message about her brother dying by her, through myspace. Why are you communicating with the girl your bf left you for? Death? Karma? No. Her brother dying isn't about Karma. I didnt get the message until after I posted this...and she randomly writes me asking me stuff bout my ex..The reason i said Karma was her brother didnt want her with my ex since he is a lowlife old loser and didnt want her to live or date him but instead move in with him but she chose to move away with my ex and cut off her brother fam and friends...and so now she and my ex gotta live with the guilt of him dying on my ex's bd and that he took her away from her brother and now he is dead..maybe it isnt karma but to me its a real wake up call for her that if he would have left the poor girl alone she may have got to spend these last few months with her brother instead she got to feel like **** for not talking to him all this time and dating this scum instead. I dont intend to talk to her again I sent my condolences and she wrote back not even with a thank you...so so much for me bein kind to an enemy.
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