Author Green Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 Chest? Yeah. Sexy during action and warm during cuddling. I am NOT into hairy backs. There are no exceptions for me. Oh marsle so young. Just wait some man with a hairy back will change your mind
marsle85 Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Oh marsle so young. Just wait some man with a hairy back will change your mind If that's the case, it's looking good for me. :love:
Stung Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 In the past I had a tendency to date Asian and Native American men, men who tended naturally to have little body hair, and I quite liked the smooth skin. My husband, however, is a hairy guy and I love him and his hairy chest and belly. For me there are positives to both natural states, I guess. I don't think I would like a guy who spent a lot of time getting himself waxed and shaved, however, just like I'm not attracted to guys who spend more time on their hair and nails than I do. A little hair on the back and shoulders is natural as a hairy guy gets older, as well. But if he turns into a walking bear rug and gets a full pelt on his back, well...okay, maybe he should at least give a backwax a shot.
Southern Belle Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 LOVE hirsute men!! A man with a hairy chest is very dreamy indeed!!
EasyHeart Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 There is a name for men who do not have hair on their chest. We call them "women".
USMCHokie Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 There is a name for men who do not have hair on their chest. We call them "women". ::crawls back into his hole::
SouthernSunshine Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 My SO is a hairy Italian. He keeps me warm at night..
CarrieT Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 I'm with Marsle on this one; my husband had a hairy back and shoulders and it really grossed me out. Green saying, "you love it, runnig your hands through the hair on a mans chest, pullng out the hair on his back while u guys go wild" -- not me and no way. Feeling hair on the back is icky for me and with my 100+ partners, I've had my share so I *do* know from whence I speak... No hairy backs or shoulders for me (not that I'm getting any at all right now to matter)....
dreamingoftigers Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 I have liked smooth skin but I really like my husband's chest hair. So soft and blonde I used to date a guy that had no upper body hair but his legs were super hairy. When he was naked it looked like he was wearing a pair of pants.
Author Green Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 I'm with Marsle on this one; my husband had a hairy back and shoulders and it really grossed me out. Green saying, "you love it, runnig your hands through the hair on a mans chest, pullng out the hair on his back while u guys go wild" -- not me and no way. Feeling hair on the back is icky for me and with my 100+ partners, I've had my share so I *do* know from whence I speak... No hairy backs or shoulders for me (not that I'm getting any at all right now to matter).... Yes well you obviously married a man who had a hairy back so younger less bitter you was all for it. Sorry it didn't work out I'm sure he was jerk probably shaved his back after u.
Southern Belle Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 ::crawls back into his hole:: Now don't go hiding.....I am sure that you are quite dreamy.
CarrieT Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Yes well you obviously married a man who had a hairy back so younger less bitter you was all for it. Sorry it didn't work out I'm sure he was jerk probably shaved his back after u. Actually, I left him after I found him having sex with three other men. He was "bear" so I doubt he shaved it off after we divorced because "bear" men are quite attractive in the gay community. And I'm afraid I don't understand the grammar of your first sentence but the implication is that I married him with a hairy back so I assented. Yes, I looked over one minor fact that I didn't care for because of my love for him, but I still did not like it. There is a difference between embracing something that exists and tolerating it. Many of us tolerate things in those we love without necessarily loving it.
Author Green Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 Actually, I left him after I found him having sex with three other men. He was "bear" so I doubt he shaved it off after we divorced because "bear" men are quite attractive in the gay community. And I'm afraid I don't understand the grammar of your first sentence but the implication is that I married him with a hairy back so I assented. Yes, I looked over one minor fact that I didn't care for because of my love for him, but I still did not like it. There is a difference between embracing something that exists and tolerating it. Many of us tolerate things in those we love without necessarily loving it. I simply find that unromantic and it is not the way I view my gf's appearance. Stop looking for some one you can tolerate and find some one you can go crazy for.
CarrieT Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 I simply find that unromantic and it is not the way I view my gf's appearance. Stop looking for some one you can tolerate and find some one you can go crazy for. How old are you? I'm not being facetious -- at this point in the game for me, it is about tolerance. The concept of going crazy for someone flew out the window for me years and years ago. With middle age, one has a very thick skin. The rose-colored glasses have long since been shattered and flutterings of the heart are a distant memory of youth. I would be happy to find someone to tolerate at this point in my life. I'm not even that lucky...
alphamale Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 I believe that women have a preference to hairy men. Maybe I am bias because I am a hairy man. I just feel that most women prefer a hairy man to one who has little or no hair. I feel that most women find men who wax or shave less attractive to a more rugged man. i agree, i have a lot of hair and chicks like it
Author Green Posted April 24, 2010 Author Posted April 24, 2010 How old are you? I'm not being facetious -- at this point in the game for me, it is about tolerance. The concept of going crazy for someone flew out the window for me years and years ago. With middle age, one has a very thick skin. The rose-colored glasses have long since been shattered and flutterings of the heart are a distant memory of youth. I would be happy to find someone to tolerate at this point in my life. I'm not even that lucky... Well it still proves my point. If being happy with merely the tolerable is all it takes to please you then I doubt hair even plays a role. On an unrelated note you sell your self short, I'm younger then you but can still tell you to cheer up! Don't sell yourself short. Some people say you can't know true happiness until you've known true pain.
CarrieT Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 Well it still proves my point. If being happy with merely the tolerable is all it takes to please you then I doubt hair even plays a role. I will grant you that. If I were to fall in love again, a hairy back won't keep me from continuing the relationship, but it wouldn't a part of his body I would want to spend a lot of time. Don't sell yourself short. Some people say you can't know true happiness until you've known true pain. I'm not necessarily selling myself short as much as I am the knowledge of true pain. Granted, I have not had a loved one die in my arms, but short of that, I have experienced some pretty horrendous things which many would consider true pain. Finding my husband having sex with other men was the least of that pain.... But enough about me. This is about hairy men. I've stated my preference and just like men who don't want women with hairy privates, I don't want a man with a hairy back. Both are natural and both can be taken care of in artificial ways. It is all a matter of preference, right? 'Nuff said.
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