WildWildWest Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 Ok u are seeing someone and have been for the past 8 months... not a real serious relationship but you have both told each other your not seeing anybody else even tho u havent made it offical yet. And everytime U ask that person if they want to get together, that person always has an excuse, for whatever reason it may be, would u think they was seeing someone else?
Sazerac Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 Whether or not they are seeing someone else, he/she is definitely sending a message that they aren't that interested in you anymore. And yes, more than likely, they are seeing someone else, or at least interested in someone else.
Rorschach Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 Whether or not they are seeing someone else, he/she is definitely sending a message that they aren't that interested in you anymore. And yes, more than likely, they are seeing someone else, or at least interested in someone else. This, whether or not their seeing somebody is debatable, but that is a big flashing sign that they are no longer interested in pursuing a relationship with you.
CarrieT Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 Whether or not they are seeing someone else is irrelevant; they are sending you enough signals that they don't want to spend time with you and that is enough of a message to move on.
Author WildWildWest Posted April 23, 2010 Author Posted April 23, 2010 U see I am the one that is always coming up with the excuses... I really do wanna spend time with him but it seems he always asks me at the worst times... I am not seeing anybody else its just our work schedules are off... he works early in the morning and I work noon to late... he is busy on the weekends and I have been having car issues so that makes it more difficult... I am just worried that he is going to think that since I always have an excuse that I am seeing someone else... especially since he already has trust issues.
DustySaltus Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 Depends, are you the person who wants to make it official or the person that likes things the way they are? If you are the person that wants to make things official and they are avoiding you it should be discussed and you should be prepared to move on. If you are the person that is avoiding the commitment, they may have grown tired of waiting around. By then it may be too late.
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