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I was in a relationship for 4 1/2 years, which ended last summer. Posting on this forum helped me through the pain and healing process. I still miss and love my ex, even though it's been over for 6 months. I watch a show on TV, and my ex comes to mind. Sometimes, I wake up & think of her.

 

I am talking to a new girl now, but here's the problem.... She lives around my ex g/f's neighborhood, and some things about her remind me of the the ex. Some interests and choices in men also seem to be similar. I kinda like her, but I don't know if I should continue talking to her. The last thing I want to do is date someone that is going to remind me of what I've been trying to get over. Any advice will be welcomed.

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It takes time to get over your ex. Though I would not advise you to break up with your new girl, I will tell you to be honest with her. I think you are on the rebound. You not giving yourself time to get over the feelings you have for your ex. To avoid hurting your new girl, take things slow. Look for friendship first.

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