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This part is amazing to me too. I thought my A was very unique. Its not really... its same old story - Only, I don`t know how mine ends yet.

 

Well, nor do I. Still got to bloody see him most days, can't avoid that for a couple of months and then I can already see what is going to happen....I won't hear from nor see him again and he'll be totally fine (probably relieved) with it and I will be gutted as per usual aarrgghhh. Oh well, at least then it may make it easier to move on....I hope.....!!!

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& mine ended as well as it could have..... Just be careful is all. We were BFF's for years too. See if you can get your head out of the clouds & FF to the ending & what that might look like. If we'd had a dday, I'd be thrown under a mac truck. I was messing with a very powerful man.

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This is similar to me as well. We were best friends for so long, and then realized that we crossed a line. In retrospect, our relationship crossed a line years before we actually admitted to ourselves that there were real feelings there. Once that realization occurred, we spent a great deal of time trying to get rid of the feelings.

 

OP - can you clarify - Is he currently in a PA with OWx? or was that in the past?

 

I know he has had one. I do not know if it is still currently going on. I am afriad to know. i would really be upset.

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only a couple of weeks longer than you...

 

Can I keep up the coolness?...it's difficult. I have to hold my tongue because there are so many things I would like to say but I can't. I can't because he has made it clear it can't carry on and I understand that. You know, if it was to all kick off and we both got divorced, I would leave with the children of course and I would be financially secure. As a man he would lose it all.....I mean that is enough to scare anyone from doing anything outside the marriage. Yeah, you can say if circumstances were different maybe we would be having a relationship,...... stupid thing is, is that if circumstances were different then we probably wouldn't have met.

 

How about you?

 

Give me an update on you. I think the kiss really scared him. He has been too busy to talk to me lately and im hurt. I am afraid he is avoiding me.

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Hard to say without more background. How do you know he was/is involved in a PA when you started? How do you feel about him? Do you want your relationship to be physical?

 

I ask because your post strikes close to home. It describes well my (former?) relationship, but I definitely was not involved with someone else when we started.

 

In what way was it alike. I would love to hear from a mans point of view.

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Give me an update on you. I think the kiss really scared him. He has been too busy to talk to me lately and im hurt. I am afraid he is avoiding me.

 

There is nothing to report. He knocked it on the head. I haven't heard from him (despite several attempts by me via email)and although I have seen him (not by choice may I add) there is hardly any conversation. So it's the end. Stopped as quickly as it started. My emotions have simply got to catch up and they are getting there. I am getting stronger every day. I am feeling much more positive now than I did and this site has helped so much, I can't tell you.:)

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