kiss_andmakeup Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I do fashion modeling and have, on a couple of occasions, had topless/nude/lingere pictures taken by photographers to give to my bf. He loves them but he still watches porn...and in fact so do I (probably more frequently than him). And I have to admit that a photo of him standing there naked probably wouldn't do it for me. When it comes to pornography I need a little more visual stimulation than just a naked picture. I have occasionally gotten off on fantasies that involved my bf though... Now, it's true that I once let him take a video of us having sex and I believe he used that...except I got rid of it cause it was on his phone and you never know who would see it!
Author Jersey Shortie Posted April 27, 2010 Author Posted April 27, 2010 (edited) You're right, JS, I merely summed up what you said instead. :/ I did not say you said it was alright for females to watch porn, just that you considered it a different thing. Which you agreed with. I feel like we are going in circles here. Yes, I do agree that there are elements in female porn watching that are different from male. For the same reasons that I think female strip clubs are MUCH more popular with men that male strip clubs are for women. However, I never said either was right or that it was okay for women to do it but not men. What do you want me to say to your first post Els? Agree that there are men who don't view porn? Yes I agree. Why don't I date just them? What do you expect me to say to that? If I did date someone who didn't view porn, that would be great. It doesn't mean that I wouldn't stop talking about what I think is messed up about porn and current culture today. Do I care if other posters have tagged me JS=antiporn? Not really. I still have a worthwhile opinion and an intelligent one and other's opinions aren't going to stop me from saying what I would like. Just as other's opinions don't stop you from speaking yours Els. All in all, not sure why you care Els. Edited April 27, 2010 by Jersey Shortie
stace79 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Yes I would rather look at them than porn. I do have a question for the women here though. If I am on a business trip for a week and nowhere near my wife and I started to feel horny would it be degrading for me to pleasure myself while thinking of her or looking at these pictures? Would most women find this degrading? I wouldn't. I like hearing that experiences between me and my SO are pleasurable enough that he can refer back to them when we're not together. Makes me feel like I am a sex goddess and the porn women are just amateurs.
Knittress Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Whenever I see threads like this I remember that chick Frenchie who got kicked off of American Idol because someone found her naked pictures on the internet. Sometime in the near future I bet every single one of us will have a naked photo floating somewhere on the net...
Els Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I feel like we are going in circles here. Yes, I do agree that there are elements in female porn watching that are different from male. For the same reasons that I think female strip clubs are MUCH more popular with men that male strip clubs are for women. However, I never said either was right or that it was okay for women to do it but not men. What do you want me to say to your first post Els? Agree that there are men who don't view porn? Yes I agree. Why don't I date just them? What do you expect me to say to that? If I did date someone who didn't view porn, that would be great. It doesn't mean that I wouldn't stop talking about what I think is messed up about porn and current culture today. Do I care if other posters have tagged me JS=antiporn? Not really. I still have a worthwhile opinion and an intelligent one and other's opinions aren't going to stop me from saying what I would like. Just as other's opinions don't stop you from speaking yours Els. All in all, not sure why you care Els. I was going to say I care because you're clearly not achieving anything and frustrating yourself, and because there's a difference between stating one's point and stating it 32477623 times. But I guess, if it gives you a sense of satisfaction to do that, then there's no reason for anyone to stop you, because there's certainly nothing wrong with airing one's opinions on this forum.
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