was I in lala land

[kellers4]

I am still so angry , my ex boyfriend of 6 months dumped me well I am assuming I am dumped as its 2 weeks since he started a campaign of ignoring my calls and texts.

 

I find it hard to believe that someone can just switch their feelings off like a tap , he was always really eager and told me he was crazy about me and couldnt believe he had met me.

 

How can you go from this to complete blank out, I really need some views/

[TaraMaiden]

I have noooo idea what went on between you guys, so do likewise.

Dump him, stop any form of contact, and move on.

your sudden silence and absence may arouse his curiosity.

Then you can let him know how it feels.

but 6 months is not all that long.

If you think you'd find it hard to take him back, stay NC.

permanently.

[Ilovecake]

I am still so angry , my ex boyfriend of 6 months dumped me well I am assuming I am dumped as its 2 weeks since he started a campaign of ignoring my calls and texts.

 

I find it hard to believe that someone can just switch their feelings off like a tap , he was always really eager and told me he was crazy about me and couldnt believe he had met me.

 

How can you go from this to complete blank out, I really need some views/

 

This is the first mandatory question of every new LS member.

It's 6 months don't dwell on it, it just wasn't there. Be happy it happened before you two got serious. Guys are always going to tell you you're better than sliced bread in the beginning, they’re mad with lust and hormones. Guys fall into “lust” a lot faster and harder than girls, then the passion part starts to dissipate and you start getting more into the relationship part, that's when their true feelings start to come out, once their hormonal blinders are off.

[Maria_la_Guera]

If somebody starts completely ignoring you out of a sudden, it is not exactly normal behavior. That would be because he doesn't want to feel bad. Or guilty. However, do YOU want go out with a guy who doesn't even have the guts to break up with you properly? Just saying. As it is, you have more dignity than him and you can move on with that dignity if you juts don't contact him anymore.

[kellers4]

I know you are right this is so hard, I feel so upset, i text him last night to ask for some explanation and he still ignored me. I feel so stupid now, I just keep going to bed so I dont have to think about it.