ladyjane83 Posted April 22, 2010 Posted April 22, 2010 After a first date if the guy was interested in seeing you again would he ALWAYS say it at the end of the date? Or sometimes could it be that they dont think about it but will the contact you later? I ask because I went on a first day last night and I thought it went really well...but at the end of the night he didnt say the "oh we should do it again" thing. So I automatically expect that he isnt interested in seeing me again. My friends say not to jump to conclusions. Is this me just being cynical and always expecting the worst?
phineas Posted April 22, 2010 Posted April 22, 2010 Why does he have to ask? Why don't you call him & see if he wants to go out again?
DustySaltus Posted April 22, 2010 Posted April 22, 2010 Why does he have to ask? Why don't you call him & see if he wants to go out again? Because it's been drilled into everyone's heads in today's society that it's the MAN's job to take the lead...
phineas Posted April 22, 2010 Posted April 22, 2010 Because it's been drilled into everyone's heads in today's society that it's the MAN's job to take the lead... I've never had a woman who was interested in me NOT beat me to the punch when it came to the call for the 2nd date. Also, when it came to women where I had to take the lead, most of them really wern't interested. They were just bored & having me buy them dinner & drinks was better than sitting at home.
Author ladyjane83 Posted April 22, 2010 Author Posted April 22, 2010 I so WOULD just go ahead and ask him anyway....but people always say ohh not dont do that, if he was ineterested he would ask you himself :s
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