skylarblue Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 I have recently found out that I am #6 on exAP's affair list. Yes, that's right. #6 and I'm sure my mutual friend is #7. Can you say serial cheater? I'm all set. All done. I hope he has a wonderful life. No new hurts for me. To all you other OM/OW: Do you think you are the only one? Be careful. I believe that I am his only OW. There is NOTHING that I find attractive about a serial cheater, and would so dump MM if I found out that he has or had OOW. It’s like 1 OW=typical, 2 or more OW=dog. I don’t think I’d feel cheated on in the same manner as his W, but I would feel betrayed, and it would be a deal breaker. MM recently told me that he sometimes gets nervous lying to his W in front of me and worries that I’m going to think that he’s not being honest with me and break up with him. I have noticed him in the kinda hurt/worried/oh god, please believe me mode before. It’s actually kinda cute. I really don’t doubt his “faithfulness” to me, not because he’s telling me, but because our R, his actions, my gut tells me.
kis Posted April 24, 2010 Posted April 24, 2010 I have recently found out that I am #6 on exAP's affair list. Yes, that's right. #6 and I'm sure my mutual friend is #7. Can you say serial cheater? I'm all set. All done. I hope he has a wonderful life. No new hurts for me. To all you other OM/OW: Do you think you are the only one? Be careful. I really feel for you and understand some of what you must be going thru. I recently have come to realize that the man I have been involved in an EA with is also a serial cheater. I dont know how many. but it sure makes you feel not special at all like you thought you were. And your mutual friend. OMG I am so afraid something like that will happen to me too. How are you going to handle that. It would be excruciating to have to witness. Are you going to tell her what she is getting into?
RedDevil66 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Those cases are extremely rare... IMO... MOST MM have only one OW... unless they really don't care if their W catch them.. My MMs don't have other OWs... I very much doubt it.. they are extremely busy guys.. and more than one OW could seriously put them in shyte to be discovered... they wouldn't take that chance. As far as I'm concerned though.. I wouldn't give a schnut if they had more than me.. I have more than them... Plus .. what I don't know don't hurt.. Yeah so rare. Does the names Tiger and Jesse mean anything. The MM man I was cheating with had 4 more other women, which I didn't know about for a yr. My ex friend who cheats, has been with 8 men, I know of, and continues to cheat and her s/o of 21 yrs is CLUELESS. There are more serial cheaters than not. You're a serial cheater so not sure how you can even say this.
MizzBlue72 Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 I honestly don't think my MM could have handled more than one OW. He had a hard enough time with me. OK - maybe I am naive .... but oh well.
nys Posted April 25, 2010 Posted April 25, 2010 Those cases are extremely rare... IMO... MOST MM have only one OW... unless they really don't care if their W catch them.. My MMs don't have other OWs... I very much doubt it.. they are extremely busy guys.. and more than one OW could seriously put them in shyte to be discovered... they wouldn't take that chance. I think my xMM had OOW...a friend told me he was pretty sure he heard him over the phone with 2 or 3 other girls, who weren't me (but wouldn't tell me how he was sure it wasn't me)...what an A**HOLE. I know he visits sleazy pubs and his social networking accounts are filled with girls of a certain nationality, who work at these pubs.
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