Soru Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 I'm kinda paranoid about my girl cheating on me. Like, she says she loves me, and I believe her, but she admitted that she did cheat on her ex boyfriend by kissing another dude before. But she felt like because he was a super dick to her that it was justified. I dunno, even if you have a douche for a boyfriend, I don't think it's justified to cheat on him...Even if she told dude about it a day later. At least break up with him first, and then go after the other guy? Just I feel like if I pissed her off by us getting into an arguement or something, she'd do the same thing to me. Being cheated on is one of my worst fears. I don't even wanna bring the fact up that it bothered me when she told me that, because it may start issues. Ugh...
ADF Posted April 22, 2010 Posted April 22, 2010 The best predictor of what someone is likely to do in the future is what they've done in the past. That said, you're worrying about this far too early. You give no indication that you and your GF are having problems right now, and you've no reason to suspect she's cheated on you to date. You really can't condemn people for you think they might do in certain circumstances. You can only fault them for what they actually do.
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