In-The-Wheat Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 Ok, some of you may have read my thread earlier... basically I was dumped by a girl I really fell for and have been no contact for a couple of weeks now - she's currently back with what I believe to be her ex and has not contacted me. I have already done some serious reflecting and bettering of myself over the last few weeks & feel like I could start to test the waters again. I'm feeling good for the most part, but still have some feelings for the ex. I would, however, like to get back out there and have some fun that really isn't too serious so as to not hurt anyone if it doesn't pan out. So my options... First there is a girl that I actually met at the same time I met my ex. She's really cute, a year younger & is already interested in me. Basically I asked both the girl and my ex out, and it just so happened I ended up going out first with my ex & had a great time. After, I gracefully backed out of my date with this other girl & was honest with her as to why. I couldn't find it in myself to really date 2 girls at once - not my thing to spilt my efforts, also nothing was really set in stone w/the other one - just said we should grab lunch that weekend & she agreed... Anyway, I hadn't seen her up until the last week my ex and I were together (which was about a month later) and she instantly remembered me, waved, smiled and said hi. Its been a couple more weeks now after going through this break up, and I haven't seen this girl since that night she said hi. Should I give her a ring and ask her out this upcoming weekend? Or should I just leave her alone and find something else? BTW, this girl works at the same place my ex does so I'm not sure if I should even go that route. Second girl I'm interested in is one that I've started noticing at the gym lately. She's very attractive and I have even caught her looking at me a few times. She is always doing some stupid workout w/half effort near me. Has anybody had experience asking someone out at the gym? She never wears head phones, and is never intensely working out so I figure it should be fairly easy to approach her, but I'm just unsure how...In any other situation I would have no problem talking to her, but the gym is just an odd place to converse. How should I go about it? Or, should I just wait until I'm around all of next weekend, go out, and try to meet some different lady friends? Any suggestions to my dilemma would be appreciated. FYI, I'm 21 at a large university.
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