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Hi there,

I've met a beautiful and truly smart girl during my last trip (5 days together)

She's that kind of quite and serious type of girl and we really began to interact after 2 days.

We've had some great time, and talked about lots of things, including private life, things we consider important in our lives, the types of girls/boys we prefer etc.

She's single and after a 6 year relationship, according to her, she can't really find a boyfriend that meets her standards (she likes honest, communicative, confident, tall boys with brown eyes, who are family oriented - mainly I fit the description)

She touched me several times when talking and came real close but she was also said that she must "keep her guard on" because all the children and collegues see her every step (she's a teacher - and the participants were almost all from her school)

Last day when traveling I didn't sit all the time beside her (another guy also tried to impress her, but he is 7 years older, divorced, with children - and despite it seemed to be that they have a good time, I don't really think she considered him interesting too much) and she keep eye contact with me almost every time I've looked back.

When the other guy asked for her number, she gave me her phone and asked me to enter mine too, and when I've asked for her email to send the photos I've took, she said it would be better to talk over IM.

The day we arrived she asked if I will be online and we've talked for about 1 hour. Since then (2 days) she initiated conversation on IM and replied to my sms

BUT...

she lives 100 km from me, and however during the last day of the trip I've told her that I will need to go to her town because of my work and it would be great if we would see each other and she smiled and said "great" when I asked yesterday for her schedule and mentioned about meeting she said we "will see" and she avoided to tell me her exact work schedule...

 

Now what is important to mention is that she's not that easy type of girl who accepts everything from the beginning but I'm wondering why I get this reaction from her....

 

I have her number, I know where she works and I thought it would be a great idea just to show up there and make a surprise for her(I'm not shore about the technical details yet :) )

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I would just ask her out to dinner. Suprising her at work if you guys havn't kissed yet may be a little to much.

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