Lindsey Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 Well we finally have our first MC appointment. Not sure what to expect, not really looking forward to it. I'm still not sure what I want out of our relationship. He's doing better, being more attentive, doing things with me, etc. But then he says these little sides comments that I see as very controlling and back-stepping. The other day we were snuggling at his parents and he told me he loved me and I said it back and his reply was "See, I'd never leave you!". I told him he's not allowed to say things like that. It's just him throwing sh*t back in my face. So I guess we'll see what happens tomorrow...
Samantha0905 Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 Well we finally have our first MC appointment. Not sure what to expect, not really looking forward to it. I'm still not sure what I want out of our relationship. He's doing better, being more attentive, doing things with me, etc. But then he says these little sides comments that I see as very controlling and back-stepping. The other day we were snuggling at his parents and he told me he loved me and I said it back and his reply was "See, I'd never leave you!". I told him he's not allowed to say things like that. It's just him throwing sh*t back in my face. So I guess we'll see what happens tomorrow... I'm glad you're getting MC. It's a difficult step going to that first appointment. It's a good thing you're speaking up and telling him when he does something you don't like and how you feel about it. I held those things in for years and built up a whole lot of resentment. Hope things go well for you!!
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