Sassafras Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 My original thread is here. I didn't realize at the time that it was in the wrong forum. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t225811/ It's been 5 weeks and I find it's only getting harder. My heart can't/won't let him go and it's killing me. I know I will most likely never have answers to my questions, but not knowing why he left is eating away at me. I haven't had any contact in 2 weeks (I broke NC twice and both times the conversation was very casual. "How's work?" Blah, blah, blah..). Lesson learned. I never thought it was possible to miss someone this much. Every other break-up I've been through, as hard as it may have been, I understood why it had to end. This was so out of left field you can't even imagine. No arguments. No withdrawing from one another. In his words, he started thinking about things one day, and called it quits the next. I despise him for putting me though this. Damn him! Thanks for letting me vent a little. Any thoughts or encouraging words are sooo welcome right now. I really need it guys.
KewlBum Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 I really have no words of encouragement as I am in the same boat as you. Been about 6 weeks, and the pain just won't go away. It's not even that I still feel pain, but that it doesn't seem like I'm improving. Maybe I am, but it sure doesn't feel like it to me. I still CONSTANTLY think about her and cry. I just want that damn girl outta my head.
skydiveaddict Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 I'm in the same boat as well. But it's been 5 months for me. You just have to hang tough. the pain will decrease
Author Sassafras Posted April 21, 2010 Author Posted April 21, 2010 I guess all we can do is take it one day at a time. I know the pain will pass eventually, but right now I just can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there.
EYECANDY000 Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 Sassafras, it will get better.. some people it takes a little bit longer. hang in there. As you can see from the previous post, you arent the only one going through this. Continue to post here if you are bored. Continue to post if you need words of encouragement, continue to post to help other people out as well. Its a hard process and you cant go through it alone. take care of yourself!
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