dazzle22 Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 You have to remember how controlled you were. You said you couldn't go out, had to change the way you dressed, and you were fantasizing about an affair to escape this. None of that sounds like a match made in heaven. Given how beaten down you were it is really no wonder you are feeling ambivelent right now. He is going to sound apologetic to get you back, but he has shown who he was for 7 years. So many people buckle and go back into abusive situations. Don't be one of them.
Dexter Morgan Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 Good for you... you made the right decision.. trust me, jealousy is NOT good... only immature, selfish, controlling people with low self-esteem have jealousy issues... I agree, but this coming from someone who makes it her admitted mission to get men to stray from their wives? uh......ok:o
Spectre Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 Wait a minute, you're whining over him being jealous, but then you go out and have drinks with another dude and consider banging him. Which sort of makes his jealously legit, even if it wasn't before. Thank you all for your advice, I know deep down its all wrong but I suppose I just convinced myself it would just be a bit of fun! I know I need to sort the issues out with BF but i'm just walking in circles at the moment You find being a whore and a potential homewrecker fun? Seriously?
Spectre Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 Good for you... you made the right decision.. trust me, jealousy is NOT good... only immature, selfish, controlling people with low self-esteem have jealousy issues... move on.. he's not right for you. Yes, cheating is also not good, especially with a married man. Only skanky, selfish, immature people cheat. He's not right for her. She sure as hell is not right for him.
Spectre Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 I agree, but this coming from someone who makes it her admitted mission to get men to stray from their wives? If this is true then wow, talk about extremely pathetic and sad.
Dexter Morgan Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 If this is true then wow, talk about extremely pathetic and sad. yes, a real life experiment was conducted and everything. I'll have to find the link for you.
Reality Drip Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Get rid of the bf if you want to have fun. By-the-way, there's NOTHING wrong with you wanting to have some fun with whomever you please. Just do it the right way so you don't wind up with a bunch more enemies than you'll already make for yourself sleeping with married people. Best wishes! -Max
FitChick Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 If you want no strings sex, there are plenty of single men available.
txsilkysmoothe Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Everybody wants to have fun and feel sexy. Surely you can find a way to accomplish that which doesn't jeopardize somebody else's marriage. Try to deal with your problems with your boyfriend without selfishly dragging an entire other family into the fray. I'm sorry you're having so much trouble with your own relationship right now, but look to that first. Your conscience is already bugging you about this...listen to it. AGREE WITH THIS! It's only harmless and casual to YOU, not to those whose lives you would forever change if the affair became known. Since all you want is cheap fun sex, go pick up a single guy in a bar.
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