Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I got a call today at work from the first MM I slept with after my second separation... I haven't seen this guy for over 4 years.. I threw him out the last time... He called today just to say hi.. and asked me if I was seeing someone.. He said I'll give you my phone no... then I said I could see it on my phone... yeah right.. as if I'm going to call him.. He's the guy who is 'responsible' for my lifestyle today... He's probably the MM that was the 'wildest' and that I've done the craziest things with... What a dork... even after I dumped him and threw him out.. Ah les hommes!
ladydesigner Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I got a call today at work from the first MM I slept with after my second separation... I haven't seen this guy for over 4 years.. I threw him out the last time... He called today just to say hi.. and asked me if I was seeing someone.. He said I'll give you my phone no... then I said I could see it on my phone... yeah right.. as if I'm going to call him.. He's the guy who is 'responsible' for my lifestyle today... He's probably the MM that was the 'wildest' and that I've done the craziest things with... What a dork... even after I dumped him and threw him out.. Ah les hommes! Oh the life of Lizzie. That is pretty funny actually. Men know exactly what they want when they want it.
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 Oh the life of Lizzie. That is pretty funny actually. Men know exactly what they want when they want it. He's an idiot.. he might know what he wants.. but he won't get anything..
torranceshipman Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Some MM's never let go...of the potential for a booty call hook up!!!
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 Some MM's never let go...of the potential for a booty call hook up!!! Yep.. I guess so.. he was 'just checking'
Owl Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Most guys tend to think that if you'll cheat with them once, you'll cheat with them again. They recognize that their being married doesn't present an obstacle for you, so you're one step closer/easier for them to hook up...is their hope at least. They know that going elsewhere, they're going to have to face the MULTIPLE obstacles, starting with their being married, and then moving on to all the other issues.
PhillySpecial Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Oh it's soooo funny when they come back isn't it. And it feels great to know they're still wishing they could come back so many years later. Mine told me I was the best sex he ever had, I guess yours feels the same. Losers. :lmao:
herenow Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 He's the guy who is 'responsible' for my lifestyle today... He's probably the MM that was the 'wildest' and that I've done the craziest things with... What a dork... even after I dumped him and threw him out.. Ah les hommes! You say this like it's a bad thing. You seem happy with your life. If this guy is "responsible" for your lifestyle today, why so much negativity towards him?
Dexter Morgan Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 You say this like it's a bad thing. You seem happy with your life. If this guy is "responsible" for your lifestyle today, why so much negativity towards him? oh, this is just her typical self pat on the back.
jj33 Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I think broader than once you cheat - once you sleep with someone if they look back and think you shared a moment, then often they think if you are single that you will be as eager to repeat that moment as they are -- especially if it was a wild moment. Face it Lizzie - you are hard to forget! If you had to throw him out he sounds like he was a creep but nonetheless you made an impact.
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 Most guys tend to think that if you'll cheat with them once, you'll cheat with them again. They recognize that their being married doesn't present an obstacle for you, so you're one step closer/easier for them to hook up...is their hope at least. They know that going elsewhere, they're going to have to face the MULTIPLE obstacles, starting with their being married, and then moving on to all the other issues. I haven't seen him for years.. and knowing him... I know he had other OWs.. I would bet my life on this. I'm sooooo not interested anymore.
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 Oh it's soooo funny when they come back isn't it. And it feels great to know they're still wishing they could come back so many years later. Mine told me I was the best sex he ever had, I guess yours feels the same. Losers. :lmao: He didn't talk about sex... he just said he wanted to say Hi... and leave me his phone number.. so I could call ... as if...
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 You say this like it's a bad thing. You seem happy with your life. If this guy is "responsible" for your lifestyle today, why so much negativity towards him? Yes he's the one who gave me this idea ...(for my lifestyle),,, Our A lasted a few years.. then he started to act like a jerk... and I dumped him (even more than once)... then threw him out of my place... and he still want to say Hi... I'm not negative.. I'm just not interested.. and I find it weird that men.. keep trying ... even after all those years.. and knowing I'm not interested..
herenow Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I haven't seen him for years.. and knowing him... I know he had other OWs.. I would bet my life on this. I'm sooooo not interested anymore. I understand that you are not interested in him. I'm just surprised at your negative comments. Why would it be bad for him to have OW? Maybe he enjoys the same lifestyle as you do.
PhillySpecial Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 He didn't talk about sex... he just said he wanted to say Hi... and leave me his phone number.. so I could call ... as if... He didn't talk about it, but you know that's what he was thinking about... You said you were really "wild" with him. Come on Lizzie, he's jonesing for some more of that lovin'.
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 I think broader than once you cheat - once you sleep with someone if they look back and think you shared a moment, then often they think if you are single that you will be as eager to repeat that moment as they are -- especially if it was a wild moment. Face it Lizzie - you are hard to forget! If you had to throw him out he sounds like he was a creep but nonetheless you made an impact. Yes he was a creep... and he's the only MM I had to threaten to tell his wife .. he really pissed me off one night.. and yes.. we did crazy stuff together.. he took big chances..
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 oh, this is just her typical self pat on the back. ... oh and here's another pat on my back... my youngest MM just left .. he just dropped by to say hi and steal a kiss.. they're expecting another son in August..
herenow Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 ... oh and here's another pat on my back... my youngest MM just left .. he just dropped by to say hi and steal a kiss.. they're expecting another son in August.. OK, in my best "I really don't understand" voice: Please explain to me how you get a pat on the back for kissing (or whatever else you and the MM do) a man who is expecting "another" baby in August.
BlueeyedJonesy Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 ... oh and here's another pat on my back... my youngest MM just left .. he just dropped by to say hi and steal a kiss.. they're expecting another son in August.. is this what you tell yourself when you do your daily affirmations? Does it make you feel more of a woman the better you mm are at living double lives as if nothing is wrong?:sick:
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 OK, in my best "I really don't understand" voice: Please explain to me how you get a pat on the back for kissing (or whatever else you and the MM do) a man who is expecting "another" baby in August. Dexter was sarcastic and I replied to his sarcasm... but to answer your question.. I've been seeing this guy for over 6 years now.. way before he started his family..
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 is this what you tell yourself when you do your daily affirmations? Does it make you feel more of a woman the better you mm are at living double lives as if nothing is wrong?:sick: Not at all..
herenow Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Dexter was sarcastic and I replied to his sarcasm... but to answer your question.. I've been seeing this guy for over 6 years now.. way before he started his family.. Actually, I don't think Dexter was being sarcastic. IMO, he was being serious. But, I could be wrong I'll let Dexter speak for himself. I read it as how he really feels. I'm not sure how to react to the fact that a man who started seeing you before he got married, is now married, having children and still seeing you. Since I don't really have anything helpful or positive to say about the situation. And you seem happy with how things are going, I think my time on this thread is done.
Author Lizzie60 Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 Actually, I don't think Dexter was being sarcastic. IMO, he was being serious. But, I could be wrong I'll let Dexter speak for himself. I read it as how he really feels. I'm not sure how to react to the fact that a man who started seeing you before he got married, is now married, having children and still seeing you. Since I don't really have anything helpful or positive to say about the situation. And you seem happy with how things are going, I think my time on this thread is done. Maybe I should have specified.. they aren't married.. they've been together since they were very young... they are 27 and 25 and have been together since they were in their teens... he has cheated on her most of those years.. she caught him many times.. but still chose to have children with him... go figure..
donnamaybe Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 I don't know what is so mystifying about the fact that any of your MM refuse to "let go." They know you're always open for business and won't get turned down.
Green Posted April 21, 2010 Posted April 21, 2010 I don't know what is so mystifying about the fact that any of your MM refuse to "let go." They know you're always open for business and won't get turned down. Its definetly not mystifying. Its like if I was a cheater I would periodicly call all the old women I cheated with. Lizzie ur a cool woman u deserve better then this. Why not enter a more traditional relationship?
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