Nikki Sahagin Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Until a few days ago I felt I was over my ex. I think of him every day but its only ever a passing thought, he's just another friend or face or memory that filters through my brain. But over the past few days i've started thinking of him more...I think its partly because the 2 main friends that I spoke to about him whenever I felt down are now in relationships so I don't want to drag them down with my negative problems now that they are happy with people. I also worry i'm not going to feel this way for someone else again, seeing as I just DON'T really get romantic feelings for people easily. I'm scared to not feel that again. I'm scared he was 'it'. I'm not going to contact him and he hasn't contacted me in about 2-3 weeks when he did speak to me now and again. Maybe thats hitting me hard too? Its just weird when you think you're over it and the feeling sparks up again, like its never really gone, just buried somewhere.
thepulse27 Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I'm going through the same thing Nikki, for about 2 weeks I was COMPLETELY over it; I could happily think of her and feel nothing, and hope that she was happy and doing well. But in the last week it's all come back, and I'm back in the 'doing well but still thinking of her constantly' stage, that seems to last forever. I know how hard it is - it seems to feel worse because you thought you were out of it, doesn't it? And I understand feeling like you'll never feel that again for anyone else. But every phase of healing seems to go like this - we have ups and downs, but overall we get better. And as for falling in love again, I will. You will too. It will happen just like it happened last time, when you're not expecting it. But we just might have to wait a while for it though! Let me know how the ups and downs go for you, it's been a very strange few months for me.
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