ann09 Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 my story is incredibly long and complicated - but to sum it up - the love of my life and I have separated from eachother so that I can fix my life - going thru a lot right now. We love eachother so much and this was a decision we made together. I'm hoping it will only be for 2-3 months. We are doing the no contact thing - at all. Although I've broken down and texted him but am weening myself off of that. I'm just afraid being completely distant for months - well - I'm just afraid time could fade our love. We love eachother more than I ever thought possible and he's said he would wait for me forever - and I believe him. There's just so much wrong with my life right now and I've dragged him thru so much - I need to be completely apart from him until everything has changed. Why does this hurt so much though? Why is it physically painful when you're heartsick? I want this feeling to go away...and yet...I kind of don't.
karnak Posted April 23, 2010 Posted April 23, 2010 I know your story, Ann. And i'm a guy. And separated from the love of my life for more than 5 years. I thought the feelings would disappear. I had other girls. The more girls I met, the more I thought of her. I still love her as much as I did in the beggining. Trust me, girl. If that man REALLY loves you, he will wait for you until the end of the world. If not, then he doesn't really love you... and you're better off without him. Be strong girl. And have faith in yourself and your future. You're not alone in the world. I care.
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