Sharmzy Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 especially if this person is an ex. the only problem being that they kissed you when they were drunk.
TaraMaiden Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 You haven't developed feelings then, have you? They never left, did they? If they had, you would never have kissed her and used alcohol as the convenient excuse for letting your guard down. (vis-a-vis your other thread on this subject). The fact that you kissed her has nothing to do with alcohol. You did it because you wanted to. The alcohol just gave you more bravado.... Don't blame her for being drunk either. It takes two to tango, sweetie....
Author Sharmzy Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 You haven't developed feelings then, have you? They never left, did they? If they had, you would never have kissed her and used alcohol as the convenient excuse for letting your guard down. (vis-a-vis your other thread on this subject). The fact that you kissed her has nothing to do with alcohol. You did it because you wanted to. The alcohol just gave you more bravado.... Don't blame her for being drunk either. It takes two to tango, sweetie.... yeah, they never actually did leave for me. i was just wondering if they would build up for her or if i should drop her totally.
TaraMaiden Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Drop her totally. she's been out of your life as a significant person for over a year. She's ostensibly moved on. What you both did was frankly, childish and idiotic. Really, it was, wasn't it?
Author Sharmzy Posted April 20, 2010 Author Posted April 20, 2010 yes it was actually. oh well. its just i dont know why moving on is so hard. especially since, as you put it she was out of my life as a significant person for over a year. just hard to comprehend why i cant get her out of my head.
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