My ex cheats on her bf with me and then lies about everything?

[Sharmzy]

well firstly everything happened when we were drunk, and im not proud of it. im attempting to cut down on my alcohol intake. probably quit drinking altogether. but the situation is that my ex drunkenly makes out with me at a party in front of her current boyfriend. despite having friends attempt to pull her away she continues to push them aside to be with me. because of this i let my guard down and tell her how much i still like her. later on when she sobers up, she tells her boyfriend (who saw everything btw, got really pissed and left) that she did it "as a favor" to me, tells me that she has no feelings for me, and tells a friend that she never initiated the kiss. which is a lie. what is wrong with her? did she really mean it or is she lying?

[eraser]

She's a manipulative nutcase. Drop her.

[ADF]

You AND your ex have very serious problems.

 

Your decision not to drink so much is a good one. However, you are clearly using alcohol has an excuse--it sounds to me like you used the fact you were drunk to justify doing something you wanted to do anyway.

 

Your ex-GF's explanation for her own behavior is nonsensical. She is very lucky the whole incident didn't end violently. It could have. Sorry, but you both need to get away from the booze and each other. For good.

[aerogurl87]

Well she's got issues and you should be happy that she's no longer your problem. By the way, if her boyfriend forgives her for that crap, he's either 1) blinding himself to the obvious (which is she has no boundaries and major issues) or 2) desperate.

[TaraMaiden]

You kissed her and used alcohol as the convenient excuse for letting your guard down. (vis-a-vis your other thread on this subject).

 

The fact that you kissed her has nothing to do with alcohol.

You did it because you wanted to.

The alcohol just gave you more bravado....

 

Don't blame her for being drunk either. It takes two to tango, sweetie...

She's now lying to salvage the situation for herself, and make herself look all innocent and blameless.

However, her current BF knows differently.

And now, so do you.

 

Ugh... drop her and leave it all alone.

Why play into the drama?

[jnj express]

You were pretty stupid allowing that to happen right in front of her boyfriend---thank your lucky stars you didn't get punched out.