Don'tWannabeAWannabe Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Like I said in my last post, I went to a party night ago where the male to female ratio was 6-1, but I looked at the event page on facebook, and actually, MORE girls than guys were invited. They just didn't show up. It brought me back to college, where it was so hard to get girls to come out and chill. I remember one time I invited 5 girls to a party and only 1 came. Same deal with a bunch of other guys; if a guy wanted to throw a party and have lots of girls come, he needed to invite HUNDREDS just to get a few dozen. Like, maybe I can understand girls apprehension to going out when they're invited by strangers. What I don't get is why girls are so flaky and apprehensive about going out and hanging out and be seen with male friend and acquaintances.
Green Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 So are you trying to say that girls are more likely to flake out on a party the guys? I really don't agree with that. BUttt. If a guy is throwing the party of course there is a greater chance that his good guy friends will show up and girls will flake out. Also, guys are wiling to go to and show up to a party alone, a girl is alwasy going to want to show up with other people so this might mean she wont show up. In the end I think you shouldn't complain it is really easy to get girls to show up to a good party, and yes general rul is only 1/5 of the people you invite might show up... unless its a wedding or birthday ect. and only good friends will be showing up and have given you their word. otherwise if its just a party for the sake of having a party and you've invited people you don't know that well like the girl you have one class with or the guy you work with but never hung out with... people might not show.
ADF Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 As I said in response to your last post, it's because men at those kind of parties are usually on their very worst behavior. They're drinking heavily, they're being loud and aggressive, they're liable to grope any women within reach. In many cases, violent fist fights between drunken guys break out without warning. If you were a woman, would you be eager to be in a scene like that?
norajane Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Maybe the girls have more options on what to do on weekends.
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 As I said in response to your last post, it's because men at those kind of parties are usually on their very worst behavior. They're drinking heavily, they're being loud and aggressive, they're liable to grope any women within reach. In many cases, violent fist fights between drunken guys break out without warning. If you were a woman, would you be eager to be in a scene like that? Precisely. Whereas I'd meet a group of people at a club or bar, I wouldn't just go to a party at some random person's house that I didn't know that well for these exact reasons. Especially when, as norajane said, young attractive girls will probably have plenty of other options for weekend activity. All other factors being equal, if guy #1 invited me to a house party and guy #2 invited me out for drinks/dancing/dinner, I'd undoubtedly hang out with guy #2.
Romance Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Pretty girls have lots of stuff to do, lots of parties to be invited to etc.
marsle85 Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Yeah. Tons of options. Usually guys are the ones hosting the parties, and if we have a full list of things to do that night, we'll ether swing by to see how it is, or not go at all if there are better options.
alphamale Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 What I don't get is why girls are so flaky and apprehensive about going out and hanging out and be seen with male friend and acquaintances. the chicks have to like the male friend who invited them. another thing is that they like to go to good parties and not lame ones.
Green Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 yeah and even girls don't like going to parties if they are a sausage fest
sagetalk Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I guess you missed it somehow, so here it is. Everyone and their Grandmother's dog wants to hang out with an attractive 18-30 single girl. If you want their attention you better be: taking them to expensive places, sleeping with them, trying to sleep with them, dating them, or know a lot of hot girls that they can try to measure up to. If you're party doesn't have guys that are doing these things with them, you're wasting your time unless your in a college town. You know it, I know it, they know it, yet I still like em' . But I agree with you, they can be the biggest social snobs in the entire world and it is a huge pain the butt. Oh well, no one's perfect .
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I guess you missed it somehow, so here it is. Everyone and their Grandmother's dog wants to hang out with an attractive 18-30 single girl. LOL!
sagetalk Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Yeah. Tons of options. Usually guys are the ones hosting the parties, and if we have a full list of things to do that night, we'll ether swing by to see how it is, or not go at all if there are better options. Options are something they do have in abundance, but a large number of options are meaningless if one doesn't know which or how to choose. So many young women have endless potential and options, but many choose the terrible options over the good ones.
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