2yearsNC Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I don't even know what to write. About 2 years NC with my ex ex ex girlfriend, I loved her. Haven't heard from her, never called her, didn't email, nothing. I wonder what she's doing. I'm not hurt or anything anymore. It almost feels as if, I am going to forget my ex completely now. Its a pitty, she was the one that cheated and left yet she is still checking my facebook 2 years later. Thats odd. I hope she forgets about me like how I'm starting to not remember her. Why do I feel like its OK to contact her now, sort of like she's waiting on me to call her? I never will.
Ilovecake Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 How do you know she's checking your facebook? Just curious.
Author 2yearsNC Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 (edited) Well two reason(s) 1) In Jan 09, I unblocked her after a year Within 24 hours, she changed her relationship status to "In a Relationship" That pushed me back a bit. 2) In Jan 2010 I blocked my wall so only friends can see I checked her profile, nothing changed. I checked the next day, she blocked her wall so only friends can see. I unblocked my wall. The next day, she unblocked her wall. I took that as sign she wanted to talk. I then perm banned her. Edited April 19, 2010 by 2yearsNC
onewillburn Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 I often feel like I am forgetting her and I haven't even reached six months of NC. How long were you guys together for? Are you seeing other people at all? Everybody moves on at their own pace. You're at two years + NC at this point and it's probably natural to at least reflect on the relationship from time to time, but are you putting yourself out there and trying to meet new people?
USMCHokie Posted April 20, 2010 Posted April 20, 2010 Ah...silly Facebook games...just block her and be done with it...
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