just-me12 Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I am currently seeing a guy. I'm 18 (19 in a month) he is 21. He came out of a 2year relationship in January with a 27/28 year old female. I'm just worried about being the rebound girl. Over the weekend, I met his friends and he keeps asking what I think of them, and was really happy that one of his best friends took to me like fish to water (it is a girl). When I have spoken about my brother he has mentioned he would like to meet him one day and that. I'm rambling I know but I haven't had someone approach a relationship as casually as he is the rest go right in straight away and I am thinking that could of been why they ended so bad. I like it this way as it is giving me time to myself as well but I don't want to be hurt in the process. He said he really liked me, he was drunk but I am not thinking he was to bad considering he was the one helping me around lol. Friday night we had our second date, our first one was three weeks prior but both of us being busy and that meant we had to hold off the next one. Friday night we went to the movies then into town, saturday was just me meeting his friends in town and on Sunday we had lunch and then just went for a walk around and went to the movies again. He kept making sure I was having fun, but I am really shy because i don't want to jump right in and then get hurt, I'm slowly coming out of my shell though and he said it is ok and that. I don't know if I'm reading to far into this or not, we met on a dating site. Any advice would help please.
USMCHokie Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 It's still early, so just have fun with him and don't rush anything. However, if I were to recommend something, don't see him three times in a weekend...that's a red flag in my book...and it'll cause you to get too attached way too quickly...and soon you'll start acting coupley after knowing each other for just a few weeks... But it's too early to tell where you stand...don't worry about where you stand...it's not like you have to "jump into" a relationship with this guy just because you've gone out with him a few times...let things happen as they may...
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