ion beam7 Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 (edited) i know this girl and shes the same age as me... were in the same grade and same school, with the same classes. we started our relationship when her friends started texting me, telling me that she liked me, then she started texting me saying the same thing... eventually her friends pressured me into asking her out on a date and she said yes.. all my life, i've thought of myself as unattractive, to tall, too smart to be fun to hang around with, and very nerdy... shes had numerous boyfriends and, if the rumors are true, has had sexual experiences i've only seen in movies... we started to hug when we saw eachother and when we said goodbye, then one day i kissed her on the cheek and, since it was my first time ever kissing a non-relative, bragged about it to all my friends.. that night we texted a lot and i told her that i loved her and she told me that she loved me as well... as for my kiss... some were happy for me, a few were jealous and one already has a girlfriend so he didn't care much.... her best friend started to text me saying that my girlfriend wanted me to make a move during or after the movie that night... we went to see a miley cyrus movie for our first date... SPOILER ALERT! SPOILER ALERT it was "the last song" in the end her father dies... towards the end of the movie... she started saying to me, "this movie is soo sad... i think i'm gonna cry" and eventually I held her hand and stroked her arm... i've told my girlfriend that since i've never had a girlfriend before i'm very new to it and am scared of messing up and being bad at kissing or making out... after the movie, we came out of the theatre and she had to leave so we hugged... then i kissed her, kind of half on the cheek half on the lips... later that night she texted me and said that she had wanted me to kiss her... i told her i would next time i see her... she also asked me when i would be ready to make out... and i said i didn't know... my question is: since shes so much more experienced than me in everything... what should I do to move our relationship forward? i'm scared of making a fool of myself and not knowing how to do something... please i need advice... Edited April 19, 2010 by ion beam7
Rorschach Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 i know this girl and shes the same age as me... were in the same grade and same school, with the same classes. we started our relationship when her friends started texting me, telling me that she liked me, then she started texting me saying the same thing... eventually her friends pressured me into asking her out on a date and she said yes.. all my life, i've thought of myself as unattractive, to tall, too smart to be fun to hang around with, and very nerdy... shes had numerous boyfriends and, if the rumors are true, has had sexual experiences i've only seen in movies... we started to hug when we saw eachother and when we said goodbye, then one day i kissed her on the cheek and, since it was my first time ever kissing a non-relative, bragged about it to all my friends.. that night we texted a lot and i told her that i loved her and she told me that she loved me as well... as for my kiss... some were happy for me, a few were jealous and one already has a girlfriend so he didn't care much.... her best friend started to text me saying that my girlfriend wanted me to make a move during or after the movie that night... we went to see a miley cyrus movie for our first date... SPOILER ALERT! SPOILER ALERT it was "the last song" in the end her father dies... towards the end of the movie... she started saying to me, "this movie is soo sad... i think i'm gonna cry" and eventually I held her hand and stroked her arm... i've told my girlfriend that since i've never had a girlfriend before i'm very new to it and am scared of messing up and being bad at kissing or making out... after the movie, we came out of the theatre and she had to leave so we hugged... then i kissed her, kind of half on the cheek half on the lips... later that night she texted me and said that she had wanted me to kiss her... i told her i would next time i see her... she also asked me when i would be ready to make out... and i said i didn't know... my question is: since shes so much more experienced than me in everything... what should I do to move our relationship forward? i'm scared of making a fool of myself and not knowing how to do something... please i need advice... Don't worry, kissing/making out for the first time is just good messy fun. She won't care if you do it wrong.
Author ion beam7 Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 thats what she keeps saying to me, "it comes naturally" is that true?
Rorschach Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Yeah pretty much, your first time is pretty much guarenteed to be a little off, but you'll catch on pretty quick. You can't really screw it up.
Author ion beam7 Posted April 19, 2010 Author Posted April 19, 2010 what do you mean? are you asking why i care about being good at being a boyfriend or are you asking why i have a girlfriend when i'm so young?
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