TooMuchPride Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 this is getting ridiculous im on a rollacoaster of highs n lows , and now i cant even enjoy my highs because i kno the low is coming , just now my exes bestfriend im'd me saying "myname..." i couldnt help but get excited cause i thought maybe my ex missed me and he was gunna tell me that , but he just said "whats up" and then "bye." it was random...but i was fine and now im crying my eyes out how can something so simple hit me so hard? sighs... this is crazy y cant i just feel like **** for as long a is need to then get better? the highs and lows SUCK.
cmichael16 Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 this is getting ridiculous im on a rollacoaster of highs n lows , and now i cant even enjoy my highs because i kno the low is coming , just now my exes bestfriend im'd me saying "myname..." i couldnt help but get excited cause i thought maybe my ex missed me and he was gunna tell me that , but he just said "whats up" and then "bye." it was random...but i was fine and now im crying my eyes out how can something so simple hit me so hard? sighs... this is crazy y cant i just feel like **** for as long a is need to then get better? the highs and lows SUCK. I think its normal, I went through over a month of that myself. And I have had to deal with her parents, i dont now but for weeks they called me reassuring me shed be back yadda yadda. It gets better, My high today was great, the low, not nearly as bad, I am 2 months single today.
dreamer0123 Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 I am struggling as well.... busy My ex and I broke up 6 months ago.. I took it really hard. We were on NC (or extremely LC) for the most part.... About 3 weeks ago- a couple of days before my birthday I need some answers.. and we spoke and he pretty much said that there was no hope of us getting back together. After that- for some reason I was on a high- felt really awesome and had felt that I needed to hear that in order to move on. Fast forward to today- I am feeling super low (it's his birthday) and it's just really hard for me. I did send a text (he had texted me on my birthday) and I know it's the last time I will ever reach out to him again. Its frustrating because I have accepted the fact that we are over- i just want this roller coaster to stop so I can move on with my life. Does anyone have suggestions on how to keep busy or to make yourself stop thinking about the ex?
single Posted April 19, 2010 Posted April 19, 2010 To take your mind of it work out and get out with friends. I can relate to this thread on a super high because i finally met someone great after splitting with my ex but the super low came at the weekend when dropping my daughter off i arrived at the house no answer so called her and she appeared from the neighbours house (single bloke). I wasn't her seeing someone that destroyed me it was the sudden realisation that my instincts were right all the time about them even when she played with my head and had me doubting myself. What i would give to be able to do NC with this one.
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