zaccer Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 There are some russian girls who live and date in the USA. How are they popular among american guys? Do men date them mostly because the girls are russian and they are a new exotic thing for sex to try? Will a man date a russian woman just because he wants to have a sexual experience with her while he really finds her unattractive and boring as a woman? In other words, if she was not russian, he would never date her because she is not good enough for him. Are there any differences between dating russian girls and american girls? Is it possible to build a LTR with emotional connection between a russian woman and an american man?
skydiveaddict Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Russian girls are all very popular here. I've dated dozens of them. funny thing though, I can never seem to get a second date. I hope you have better luck
marsle85 Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 My best friend is Russian. Guys love her accent and are DEFINITELY drawn to her. It's not a dealmaker though. Actually, she assimilated into American culture pretty well. Her accent is the only thing Russian about her (besides her political views, and vodka love haha)
Toki Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Lots of Russians around here, no luck on my end with them. Don't see why it matters to be honest. Dos vedanya tovarisch.
USMCHokie Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Heheh, this thread actually made me look up mail order bride companies...anyone have any experiences with any companies...? Any sites that are better than others...?
skydiveaddict Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Heheh, this thread actually made me look up mail order bride companies...anyone have any experiences with any companies...? Any sites that are better than others...? Yes the best one is "I like Chinaman.com"
USMCHokie Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Yes the best one is "I like Chinaman.com" Thanks for nothing. But seriously though, perhaps that is where I should look next...I can't compete on any of the popular US online dating services...I might have a better chance with the mail order bride route...
skydiveaddict Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Thanks for nothing. But seriously though, perhaps that is where I should look next...I can't compete on any of the popular US online dating services...I might have a better chance with the mail order bride route... yes, that's definitely the way to go (Please marry me .com)
Author zaccer Posted April 18, 2010 Author Posted April 18, 2010 Thanks for nothing. But seriously though, perhaps that is where I should look next...I can't compete on any of the popular US online dating services...I might have a better chance with the mail order bride route... you should make at least 80.000 per yr to be able to bring a russian girl here and support her financially here for several yrs untill she completes her college education here on your money to find a job for herself.
Crusoe Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Can a fella from the UK answer? I like Russian women, they seem to have a strength and diginity not often seen in the West nowadays, (both men and women) and a real no nonsense attitude towards life that I both respect and admire. Have certainly never looked upon Russians as unattractive and boring, quite the opposite.
spookie Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 i'm russian, tho imo my family's story of immigration is as american as they get. i never knew men viewed me as "exotic".
JustJoe Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 OP, it depends a lot on the girl. I dated a Russian woman in Kosovo, when I was with Kfors. She was a Veterinarian, and teacher, really nice lady, but she told me that most Russian Girls are looking for a "green card".
zetkin Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Thanks for nothing. But seriously though, perhaps that is where I should look next...I can't compete on any of the popular US online dating services...I might have a better chance with the mail order bride route... OP, it depends a lot on the girl. I dated a Russian woman in Kosovo, when I was with Kfors. She was a Veterinarian, and teacher, really nice lady, but she told me that most Russian Girls are looking for a "green card". Can a fella from the UK answer? I like Russian women, they seem to have a strength and diginity not often seen in the West nowadays, (both men and women) and a real no nonsense attitude towards life that I both respect and admire. Have certainly never looked upon Russians as unattractive and boring, quite the opposite. Well, I am not exactly Russian, but originally from a similar environment, from Eastern Europe. So I can tell you that it does depend on a girl. Girls who move from Russia/Eastern Europe to the western countries (Western Europe or the USA, doesn't matter) to work as a highly-experienced specialist or to get education (with a full scholarship of course) really have huge strength and dignity. But, USMCHokie, on the "mail order bride" sites you are going to meet absolutely different kind of girls. Those who want to find a better route in life by marrying a person simply because he's an american. So be ready to meet a cunning and lying person and also one who is not interesting and absolutely shallow. Be also prepared that you will see a photo of one person and you will be actually in correspondence with someone else. I personally know one person I'd like to tell you about - she's smart and speaks english well. She's been married several times. Her last husband was from South Africa and quite rich. He gave her money for everything she needed. And as she didn't work she only spent time shopping or going to beauty salons, but she was not that stupid to spent all the money for that stuff, she bought jewelry (secretly from him). And several years later she divorced him and went back home with quite a fortune, probably to look for a new husband))) I remember her words, she said "The main thing is not to get pregnant" I don't want to say that russian girls are all like that - only those on online dating.
Author zaccer Posted April 18, 2010 Author Posted April 18, 2010 i'm russian, tho imo my family's story of immigration is as american as they get. i never knew men viewed me as "exotic". You are probably not "exotic" because you grew up in this culture and have no strange accent.
USMCHokie Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 But, USMCHokie, on the "mail order bride" sites you are going to meet absolutely different kind of girls. Those who want to find a better route in life by marrying a person simply because he's an american. So be ready to meet a cunning and lying person and also one who is not interesting and absolutely shallow. Be also prepared that you will see a photo of one person and you will be actually in correspondence with someone else. I personally know one person I'd like to tell you about - she's smart and speaks english well. She's been married several times. Her last husband was from South Africa and quite rich. He gave her money for everything she needed. And as she didn't work she only spent time shopping or going to beauty salons, but she was not that stupid to spent all the money for that stuff, she bought jewelry (secretly from him). And several years later she divorced him and went back home with quite a fortune, probably to look for a new husband))) I remember her words, she said "The main thing is not to get pregnant" I don't want to say that russian girls are all like that - only those on online dating. Very interesting. Thanks for this.
stillafool Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 you should make at least 80.000 per yr to be able to bring a russian girl here and support her financially here for several yrs untill she completes her college education here on your money to find a job for herself. This is not true at all. I saw a show on men who brought over Russian brides. These girls were here to marry not go to school. No one will make you educate her. The guys seemed really happy. Of course they were all old geezers with young Russian women, but the women looked happy too. I say go for it. Just good Russian male order brides.
stillafool Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 Why don't you rent "Mail Order Wife" (2005). This documentary was quite interesting.
stillafool Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 So be ready to meet a cunning and lying person and also one who is not interesting and absolutely shallow. Be also prepared that you will see a photo of one person and you will be actually in correspondence with someone else. This should work out well because the men who normally want to bring these girls over here are just as shallow and boring as these girls you speak of. They also lie about their looks and wealth so it should all work out for them.
Author zaccer Posted April 18, 2010 Author Posted April 18, 2010 This is not true at all. I saw a show on men who brought over Russian brides. These girls were here to marry not go to school. No one will make you educate her. The guys seemed really happy. Of course they were all old geezers with young Russian women, but the women looked happy too. I say go for it. Just good Russian male order brides. If she does not want/or have to work here, there is no need to educate her. As for, 'no one will make you educate her', she might make her husband to educate her if she expresses a desire to work here. Also, many guys want their wives to work.
stillafool Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 If she does not want/or have to work here, there is no need to educate her. As for, 'no one will make you educate her', she might make her husband to educate her if she expresses a desire to work here. Also, many guys want their wives to work. Well if they want their wives to work there are plenty of high salaried American women to chose from instead of going half way across the world.
tami-chan Posted April 18, 2010 Posted April 18, 2010 They work because it is a "fall back position"...or so they can have their own money to spend for whatever they want. It's the same reason that many women do, Russian mail order bride or not. What's the big deal?
Author zaccer Posted April 18, 2010 Author Posted April 18, 2010 Well if they want their wives to work there are plenty of high salaried American women to chose from instead of going half way across the world. Well said. I wish I could get at least a couple dates with one of those high salared American women.
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