phineas Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 There is nothing lower than woman who cheats on her man while he is fighting a war. The same goes for men if their women are deployed also.
Author CFM Posted April 28, 2010 Author Posted April 28, 2010 Thanks for the continued support guys. Yeah, I tend to agree. I personally think the guy involved is just as messed up seeing as he knows full well where I am. I feel like I'm getting beat with my hands and legs tied and he's enjoying the hell out of it. I hope he experiences a little what goes around comes around. On a side note.. 3 days! Woo.
Lecturer Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I just read this thread (sorry to necro) and, while I imagine CFM is long gone, I'm curious how things went. I can say that while reading this thread I felt like I was kicked in the balls - serious gut ache - on the big night when she had sex with the other guy. The fact that on more than 1 occasion CFM asked her (hypothetically or not) to not see the guy anymore and she REFUSED... that shows there was never a chance for this to work out. The second fact that she wanted CFM to stop talking about it when he was hurting and needed to showed her to have a complete SELFISH disregard for his feelings. I think it is a pretty universal rule for ALL relationships that if you can't talk about it, you shouldn't do it. Finally, her own ultimatum... using the other man as a weapon... wow. That is pretty much the most disgusting, horrible thing a person has done/said that I've read about for a while.
Chicago_Guy Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 ... Cliffnotes: Been with a girl for 4 years, believe it's true love - want eventual marriage and kids (her also). First love, took her virginity, rocky but successful being long distant for most of relationship. She's starting to feel like it's now or never to experience some things in life and wants to experience other guys but not lose us. Part of me completely understands and wants her happy. She's started to "see" someone else, being completely honest and not hiding anything. She has been brutally honest about her feelings and tells me everything she does with the guy. Her relationship with the other guy is clearly not love, just fun. I am getting out of the Army in 2 months and can move one of two places. With her or the other side of the country and make things between her and I near impossible to continue. My questions: What is your take on this? Am I out of my mind allowing my girlfriend, nearly fiance, be with other men for now? If I stick through this, is it likely that it will turn in my favor? Should I just jump ship now and be done with her? I think you are out of your mind for letting her be with other guys. What's even worse is that she tells you what the other guy does with her. Why would you even consider marrying this woman? She sounds too immature for marriage.
Sanman Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 CFM, Good luck, man. While I haven't read the whole thread, I know it's tough being over there and having to deal with all of that stuff. Having lived near one of the largest military bases in the country, I have seen this stuff happen all too often. I can't even count how many "single" women I have run into who are actually in relationships with deployed men. It sounds as if she was going to cheat anyway, but wanted you to agree so that she didn't feel guilty. There are a lot of great women out there and you are still pretty young. Go to school, have fun, and meet someone else that you can have a good relationship with.
Chrome Barracuda Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I think cfm broke up with her already! i think it was mentioned in another thread.
Lecturer Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I think cfm broke up with her already! i think it was mentioned in another thread. Nah, the details never came out. I searched CFM's posts, and the most recent one from him in this thread is his last one (doesn't say what happened). I imagine he did break up with her, but I wouldn't mind finding out how it went, and finding out how CFM is doing - hopefully much happier now that he's back from Iraq and meeting new people.
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